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I'm a 28 year old male and I've tried it hundreds of times over the course of my life, but have never been able to ejaculate due to not being able to get an erection and it being too painful to continue. I'll be masturbating for minutes on end and yet nothing happens, except pain. This is beyond frustrating beyond my sex drive is very high and I'm horny 24/7, but I can never masturbate or have sex. I'm seeing a doctor about this, however he is at a loss about what to do.
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(Original post by Baelon)
I'm a 28 year old male and I've tried it hundreds of times over the course of my life, but have never been able to ejaculate due to not being able to get an erection and it being too painful to continue. I'll be masturbating for minutes on end and yet nothing happens, except pain. This is beyond frustrating beyond my sex drive is very high and I'm horny 24/7, but I can never masturbate or have sex. I'm seeing a doctor about this, however he is at a loss about what to do.
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Sorry to hear this.

If my doctor couldn't diagnose the problem I'd expect to be sent to a specialist.

It's not quite clear if you can or cannot get an erection?
If not have your ever been able to?
Where is the pain? Can you describe it?
Does it hurt in everyday life? Walking etc.
Does it hurt when you pass urine? Do you have problems passing urine?
Can you retract your foreskin?
Is your penis bent or significantly curved?
Have you ever had surgery or experienced trauma or an accident on or around your genital region?
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I can get an erection but only with a lot of Viagra and sometimes it doesn't work and it is extremely hard to maintain it. The pain is a tearing pain all over my penis. It doesn't hurt in everyday life. I don't have problems passing urine, I can retract my foreskin. Yes my penis bends extremely to my left. I've never had surgery but I have had a lot of trauma and accidents in that region due to sports and fights.
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Ok.

I'd strongly advise you not to take either Viagra and particularly not 'a lot of' Viagra until you have a diagnosis.

I'd expect to be referred to a urologist or another type of consultant after some questions, examination and blood test. I wouldn't take no for an answer: either you're waiting for test results, trying out a treatment you've been given or for an appointment with a consultant. If none of these are true I'd get a second opinion and go to see another doctor.

Well done for seeking help, while frustratingly slow hopefully you'll get the answer and treatment soon. I'd make sure in the meantime you are as happy and healthy as you can be.
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Oh the doctor prescribed me Viagra. When that didn't work he referred me to a urologist, which I am seeing on Monday. I was just looking for info before then that's all. Yep I'm happy and healthy.
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Brilliant! That's great news on the urology appointment.

No harm in writing your own notes and questions before hand. I wouldn't overdo reading about stuff online, once you've got a diagnose it can be helpful to look a accredited sites/sources and never trust forum responders.

On the Viagra follow the medication notes - again do not overdose on them.

Good luck with everything.
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The urologist gave me another medication on top of the Viagra but that didn't do anything either. So now he doesn't know what to do and I don't know what to do.
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Sorry to hear that.

You'll probably be sent for more tests and then maybe another referral.
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(Original post by Baelon)
I'm a 28 year old male and I've tried it hundreds of times over the course of my life, but have never been able to ejaculate due to not being able to get an erection and it being too painful to continue. I'll be masturbating for minutes on end and yet nothing happens, except pain. This is beyond frustrating beyond my sex drive is very high and I'm horny 24/7, but I can never masturbate or have sex. I'm seeing a doctor about this, however he is at a loss about what to do.
A single doctor won't cut it. If this is bothering you, which it seems it is, get the opinion of multiple doctors. Doctors can be wrong, so it's good to get insured decisions.
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Do you mean multiple specialists or multiple family doctors? Because I've seen one of each so far.
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(Original post by Baelon)
Do you mean multiple specialists or multiple family doctors? Because I've seen one of each so far.
Baelon, have you made any progress since?
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Hi Andy, sorry for the late reply. Yes I have made some good progress. I can get erections regularly, however it is still difficult. I was able to ejaculate for the first time ever, it was during sex, and it happened only once. Since then I have been unable to do it again during sex or masturbation. Sex is very enjoyable but the slightest wrong move and it is very painful for me, so the docs are still working on figuring out why that happens. A CT scan revealed nothing.
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