When I dress trampy people look down at meWatch
Are you sure it's not the way you're feeling? When I can't be bothered and put something sloppy on, I don't feel good and my self esteem is low- so my mind tells me people are looking / treating me like rubbish when really it's my outlook on things. Just a posibility? I personally think it's very shallow to judge people on what they choose to wear. X
There is a technique to rehabilitate radical racists that sees them interact with someone of a different race. Time means that the information can be processed differently, and prejudices can be overcome.
You can't not be judgemental, but you can know how to second guess yourself when you're being unfair.