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    Hi. I'm 19- typically a somewhat reserved girl and my luck has it time and time again that I make new friends and then they ignore me all together when they find out that I'm not into partying. I'm also a college student so when I'm in class and I THINK I made some kind of friendship,no one ever reaches out to me outside of class. I do all the initiation of conversation and exchanging phone numbers but never get any texts or plans to hang out or study together in return. I also find it hard to keep convos interesting with my generation since I'm not a big social media person other than snapchat since I was bullied in school and don't wanna carry that over into another platform and almost all convos among peers are social media related. maybe I give off a vibe of some sort and it makes me self conscious as though I'm doing something wrong...i also don't wanna change for anyone or be someone I'm not.falling in love is something I've been waiting to happen as I work on myself as a whole but no one really seems to notice or even acknowledge my presence.am I invisible?...idk...help?
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    Hi. I'm 19- typically a somewhat reserved girl and my luck has it time and time again that I make new friends and then they ignore me all together when they find out that I'm not into partying. I'm also a college student so when I'm in class and I THINK I made some kind of friendship,no one ever reaches out to me outside of class. I do all the initiation of conversation and exchanging phone numbers but never get any texts or plans to hang out or study together in return. I also find it hard to keep convos interesting with my generation since I'm not a big social media person other than snapchat since I was bullied in school and don't wanna carry that over into another platform and almost all convos among peers are social media related. maybe I give off a vibe of some sort and it makes me self conscious as though I'm doing something wrong...i also don't wanna change for anyone or be someone I'm not.falling in love is something I've been waiting to happen as I work on myself as a whole but no one really seems to notice or even acknowledge my presence.am I invisible?...idk...help?
    Have you tried inviting people to do things with you?
 
 
 
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