Ok sorry guys ,
I was trying to say , me and my Bf and his daughter all use to live to together. Before all that the little girl was staying with the mom and aunt they don’t like me bc my Bf moved out with me. The little girl would visit on the weekend, the mom ended up leaving to another state and left her with the dad. The little girl started to blame me for her mom leaving , my Bf work from 7 to 7 and sometimes leaves the state and she would stay with me ,I would cook for her stuff that i know she likes but she would just sit there and tell this is nasty and throw it all over the counter (she’s 9 )I would help her with her homework so I would explain to her over and over how to do the math problems and she would act like she doesn’t know until her dad came then she would get it right. When are dad isn’t around she tells me stuff like I want my dad and mom together. It was like everything I did for she had a problem with nothing was every good enough for her I understand that shes hurt her mom left her , now she living with her aunt bc she told her dad I want to live with my aunt not you guys so the dad let her go live with the aunt. Bc it was always a constant problem with me taking care of her she just didn’t listen to me until her dad was around