Hello,
I met a guy online last summer -not on a dating site. We kinda developed feelings towards each other and we'd like to meet irl when we can.
I am usually the one to initiate convos. If he writes me first he just sends "hi, what's up' and that's it. I find it a bit strange so i start asking questions,sharing stuff and he's responsive.
He can be very lovely, and then turns out distant/harsh/cold. Which makes me anxious, so i start to send him many messages which he ignores for a while and then answers. I know, very wrong to do that. He accuses me of exagerating things, and being clingy.
Anyway. I made a fake profile on the site we met, and managed to know my identity. I messaged him once or twice there and he sent me a link "difference between clingy ad caring" lol. Then i contacted him on whatsapp and he said he did't want me to write him. But when i told him i will delete him from everywhere cause i will keep on contacting him, he replied and asked me what's my goal,why i have a clingy behaviour, why i made that profile bla bla. We were supposed to talk the next day cause it was late, he didn't messaged me. I did, and i asked him why he blocked my real profile on that site. "I didn't block you what are u on about, i just unfriended u. You like exagarating things don't u? And dramatization". Well he blocked me there and on fb messenger and on another social media, but not on whatsapp. We agreed on talking after he is done with a check up exam at his work on thursday. I wrote him yesterday and today, he's barelyyyy answering.
How am i supposed to behave? What should i explain to him ? Is making a fake profile really that bad? How should i justify it?
I made it because i wanted to compare the way he talks with me and with others. To see if i am indeed a friend as he claims, cause it feels like he can replace me by X or Y.
Obviously i tried to make it short... so some important details might be missing. Let me know if you have any questions and loads of thank