Oops, seems like I’m not done yet. Since starting this gap year, and praying since then that I would get the grades, I knew that if I do get the grades (or not!), I would make sure that if anyone has to face this situation, I can do my best and give all the advice I know. It’s a soul crushing experience and there’s so many questions to answer. So, I have a few tips, pointers and just observations to look out for
1. You have to know that this decision is the best for you. It’s a must to do as much research as you can on all your possible routes and then make an informed decision.
2. Resits are a bit tricky when looking at where to apply. Universities might change their mind when it comes to resit policies or become very vague with what they accept. For me both happened, good and bad. One university confirmed I could get a lower offer because of EPQ and then when i got the offer, they changed their policy and I got the normal offer instead. As for another university, they said resit applicants have to be extra competitive but this wasn’t as competitive as I’d expected, and I was treated the same as others at the interview, which is great. The point is, be cautious.
3. Schools might make resitting a bit tricky so definitely confirm with your school that the help they give to a school leaver is the same they will give to you. My school gave me a right scare when they said they wouldn’t predict me grades, however this was a misunderstanding in the end. There are resit colleges (very expensive imo) or private centres too, but I can’t recommend them as I haven’t tried them out.
4. Try and find people in similar situations to you as it makes the gap year less lonely, as sad as that sounds. For most unexpected gap years, your friends go off to uni and you’re left to pick up ur pieces. I was lucky that I had both friends I already knew in the same boat, and those I met through here!
5. It will take quite a while to accept the whole situation and you might find yourself feeling glum some days. I had a few of these days all the way to April. And it’s ok! But looking back, I’m happy with the choice I’ve made. Take breaks, do fun things, enjoy yourself too! Initially I was incredibly harsh on myself and limited myself to just studying but i did realise soon enough that that was a bit stupid. Make this gap year enjoyable too, for it really matures you up. The end ❤️