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Reply 1

I highly doubt it.

Love + mutual respect + plenty of space when it's needed?

Reply 2

a nice other half is a help....but that take alot of effort and time to find. by the time you do find it your not after anything.

Reply 3

never having to say you're sorry

Reply 4

just 2 people who are right for each other. simple as.

Reply 5

The_Goose
never having to say you're sorry

But then there can never be make-up sex. And relationships need make up sex.

Reply 6


lol someone has already done a thread on this exact topic. the best answer was something along the lines of not having to post a problem on the H&R section of TSR :p:

Reply 7

ashy
But then there can never be make-up sex. And relationships need make up sex.



haha exactly you need those little stupid pointless fights to show just how much you love each other also

Reply 8

little-clumsy-me
haha exactly you need those little stupid pointless fights to show just how much you love each other also

;yes;

"I'm sorry I called your mum an overbearing hag. Sex now?"

Or something like that anyway :p:

Reply 9

The_Goose
never having to say you're sorry

Rubbish

A working relationship is one where both partners respect each other and don't rely on the other for all their fun and enjoyment. They live their own lives, but grow together. They have the occasional banter, but work through it and their relationship grows. They trust each other and don't feel the need to check up on each other every minute of the day, don't feel they should spend every minute of their lives with one another. They don't necessarily have to like the same things but the respect they have means they can still get on well and respect another's interests.

Reply 10

ashy
;yes;

"I'm sorry I called your mum an overbearing hag. Sex now?"

Or something like that anyway :p:



aahhahaa nooo you dont ask its just supposed to happen!!! Silly

Reply 11

emilina
lol someone has already done a thread on this exact topic. the best answer was something along the lines of not having to post a problem on the H&R section of TSR :p:


^ thats defantly a start. trust, honesty, love all key and two people who compliment each other well and who work well together.

I highly doubt there will ever be a perfect relationship.

Reply 12

A perfect relationship? No such thing, because people are usually very far from perfect. You can be very well suited to someone, but of course, that isn't the same as perfection.

Reply 13

jenren22
Rubbish

A working relationship is one where both partners respect each other and don't rely on the other for all their fun and enjoyment. They live their own lives, but grow together. They have the occasional banter, but work through it and their relationship grows. They trust each other and don't feel the need to check up on each other every minute of the day, don't feel they should spend every minute of their lives with one another. They don't necessarily have to like the same things but the respect they have means they can still get on well and respect another's interests.


I don't think it's rubbish. When my fiance does something that upsets me he doesn't have to say sorry because I know he is, and yea we talk but we never have to apologise to each other in the sense that you have to get an apology or the row will continue because for me thats not what love is about. Somethings don't need to be said

Reply 14

little-clumsy-me
aahhahaa nooo you dont ask its just supposed to happen!!! Silly

Good point.

"I'm sorry I called your mum an overbearing hag."

5 minutes later...

"I'm sorry that was so disappointing"

Repeat over and over and over....

Reply 15

Someone such as Plato would argue to achieve perfection in this world is impossible (bah philosophy A-level). However, to achieve anything near perfection in a relationship, I imagine a couple where there is reciprocal love, happiness and each willing to meet the needs of the other. I would also argue that there is no identikit couple, since we are all so different, but I reckon there are a few very happy relationships out there.

Reply 16

Everybody wants different things so there's no universal definition of the perfect relationship. I believe mine is perfect for me. That's all that matters.

Reply 17

The_Goose
I don't think it's rubbish. When my fiance does something that upsets me he doesn't have to say sorry because I know he is, and yea we talk but we never have to apologise to each other in the sense that you have to get an apology or the row will continue because for me thats not what love is about. Somethings don't need to be said

There's nothing wrong with saying sorry, especially in a relationship.

Reply 18

Happiness.

Reply 19

jenren22
There's nothing wrong with saying sorry, especially in a relationship.



Im not saying we never say sorry. But we never need to. Neither of us has the "well I'm not saying anything to him until I get an apology" mentality that seems to develop in many relationships