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Slagging people off...

I just seem to slag everyone off, people at sixth form, my 'friends' and my family. I will moan and go on about them behind their backs, i don't really know why.
I think that i have this mind set that their slagging me off behind my back so i have to do it back again.
I don't have any friends really because of my constant moaning and me being generally unpleasant, but i cant really help it.
Is anyone else like this, its just the way i am and i want to change but its hard to be 'nice' and 'pleasant'.

Reply 1

Well from what you've said, there doesn't seem to be much advice that anyone can give to you - you've already said what the problem is and what you want to do. I don't mean to be harsh but it's easy to be nice, whenever you think of something horrible to say, just don't say it! And think of nice things to say instead. Also, smile more, i read somewhere that smiling makes you feel happier. :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin:

Reply 2

go by the rule if you cant say anythng nice, dont say anything.
you never know people might be thinking the same as you and only slagging you off because you are them.