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To those who consider themselves 'in love'

Poll

Is your partner of superior worth?

A question:

Would you consider your partner to be of superior worth* than yourself?

*Worth within the context of relationships and attraction (physical attractiveness, personality and the like).

I realize worth even within this context is somewhat subjective (if not purely), but still, I'm interested in people's ideas..

Reply 1

The_Goose

18

Not sure really. I think my guys really really attractive but he's not what you would typically consider a hunk I on the other hand am fat :biggrin:

but he thinks im beautiful... dunnoreally.

Reply 2

xBeccaxxGOKx

I said Yes, because my boyfriend has his own set of fans/worshippers.
He was/is there King. :s-smilie:

Reply 3

Aesop

OP

11

xBeccaxxGOKx

I said Yes, because my boyfriend has his own set of fans/worshippers.
He was/is there King. :s-smilie:

Yeah but you got 7k HP!

:wink:

Reply 4

bekahchu

14

No, one option should be "on a par with each other"

Reply 5

xBeccaxxGOKx

Aesop

Yeah but you got 7k HP!

:wink:

Haha

Reply 6

louisedotcom

13

Aesop

A question:

Would you consider your partner to be of superior worth* than yourself?

*Worth within the context of relationships and attraction (physical attractiveness, personality and the like).

I realize worth even within this context is somewhat subjective (if not purely), but still, I'm interested in people's ideas..

My boyfriend is most definatly 100% more attractive than I am.
Regarding personality im not really sure, were actually quite different in that respect, and have many characteristics and traits that the other doesnt, so I guess its a case of who has the best ones :p:

Whilst everyone knows you cant really base superiority on such things, for arguements sake on the whole yeah id say he was pretty superiour :biggrin:

I regard him as being pretty much perfect (in terms of what I look for) wheras myself I see as being far from. So on that basis, yeah hes superiour.

Reply 7

Coco.

12

I am more attractive than my boyfriend.
However he is more intelligent.

Reply 8

Aesop

OP

11

I think it's important for me to note that the worth is based purely upon your own opinion.
i.e. his/her worth in terms of attractiveness/relationship material to you, outweighs what you consider your own.

I'm not really considering any objective value (for other people to judge).

Reply 9

Baisodrome

I think he's just... brilliance. I've a high opinion of myself anyway but I'm not a patch on the guy. Seriously. Amazes me every day that he was single when I found him.

He's incredibly bright and wise, I have no idea where he gets his ideas from. He almost talks from the perspective of somebody who's lived life a million times, teaches me every day. I've never met anybody who makes me laugh more, I'm going to have awful laughter lines. He's also miles sexier, built like a man and the most gorgeous face.

I feel so lucky, like one day I'll wake up and it's all have been a dream :frown:

Reply 10

Scarlett_Jewel

1

I generally have a low opinion of everyone, but he is amazing. Much better looking than me and has a much bigger intellect capacity than I do. Doesn't mean to say he uses it though :s-smilie:

Reply 11

Aesop

OP

11

bekahchu

No, one option should be "on a par with each other"

I deliberately didn't include that :tongue:

Reply 12

bekahchu

14

Aesop

I deliberately didn't include that :tongue:

Why? When it's a perfectly acceptable answer.

Reply 13

Hedda.Gabler

My boyfriend is probably similar on the looks/intelligence scales, but he is much nicer than me!! well he is nicer to me than i am to him anyway... so yes he is superior

Reply 14

*pitseleh*

20

No, I think we're an equal match. There are plenty of areas where he's "better" than me, but I don't feel wildly inferior, or anything. I'd hate to feel like that.. I think it would detract from the relationship if I thought I wasn't up to some sort of standard.

Reply 15

Rosie18

9

I'd say my boyfriend and I are on similar levels looks-wise but he is far cleverer and wittier than me! I wouldn't say he was superior to me though, as I'd hope he'd say equally as nice things about me!

Reply 16

Meteorshower

14

My girlfriend is miles more attractive than i am and more intelligent but i am a lot more positive. On the whole she's much better than i am! But i make her happy so i don't think this detracts from the relationship, as long as i make her happy i don't feel wildly inferior

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