Why is he ignoring me??

Heya
Right, i need your opinion on something please.

I have known this guy for about 5 weeks. We've become very close extremely quickly. We have been seeing each other for about 1 month.

I went to his house on Saturday night. It was a really great night and we sat ate pizza, watched a movie. Of course we were kissing as well. Pretty standard stuff.

Things kind of led from one thing to another. Basically, he wanted to sleep with me. I told him that he wasnt going to get his way (coz i wasnt in the mood)...and we just laughed it off (although he was being rather persistant throughout the evening)

So nothing happened that night.

So, i stayed in his bed with him. Next morning we were kissing again. And he still wanted to sleep with me again.

I was a virgin. I am extremely comfortable with him and thought i was ready and so we did start having sex.

During the sex, i told him to stop. I think it's because it was painful but i just told him that i didnt feel too good. We then just layed in bed and nothing was really said as such.

Yesterday evening, i sent him a message explaining how i was a virgin but i hadnt regretted what we had started to do. I apologised to him for not telling him. I know i should have done.

I didnt think it was a big thing telling him.

Anyway, i havent heard anything from him today which is really really bizzarre and im just worried that he now thinks that he forced me into having sex as he mentioned it so much - which he didnt (force me). And i told him that i didnt regret anything.

I just dont know what to do. Why would he be ignoring me??

All suggestions welcome

Reply 1

tomster_11

im not really sure if there is any reason here for him to ignore you. Perhaps he just feels a little uncomfortable, whether it was because he feels he may of forced you into it, or he may feel that u couldnt tell him the truth about your virginity. Either way you should text him asking if he is ok, if something has happened and tell him your a little worried abot him. This will get him back on side.
It will all work out and im sure he is fine and there wil be a perfectly reasonable explanation as to why he hasnt managed to reply yet.
Hope it all works out for you
xx

Reply 2

.Ed.

he may not be ignoring you, he may just have not contacted you for any number of reasons.

Reply 3

theredwindmill

Ed is right he may not be ignoring you and haven't contacted you for other reasons. if your still worried text him asking if he is ok. i hope it goes well

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