should i tell him i love him

i posted on here before a few days ago about splitting up with my boyfriend. i never knew it would hurt like this. it seems like such a sudden rash decision, despite being together two and a half years he has been most casual about the whole thing, literally just 'sorry its ended like this, i hope we can be friends' and seems to be getting on fine whilst im absolutely devastated. i want him so much, i really want to tell him how much i love him, is this a good idea?

Reply 1

dh00001

its probably not the best of ideas no. the potential further rejection will hurt you further imo

Reply 2

|jenny|

if you broke up with him there must have been a reason...try to focus on that reason and hopefully you will feel less hurt!!
I dont think its a good idea to contact him... just leave it and you will eventually feel better :biggrin:

good luck xxx

Reply 3

PaperMoon

No, you shouldn't. It will just be an ego boost for him, and make you seem like the needy one. It won't actually make him come back to you.

Reply 4

Boo_2

I really feel for you... but I agree with others that you shouldn't tell him. Personally I don't think it would be an ego boost, but it wouldn't make him take you abck