How to deal with first week of break up?Watch
I’ve also gone through something like this recently and it’s broken my heart and made me depressed, but I’m also going to start uni in September, too. I think that’s great because it gives us both the opportunity to find other guys who are more suited to us or can date around a little.
Hope you feel better soon. Everything looks crap right now, but once you get through this fog, everything’ll be back to normal and happy again.
So my boyfriend of one year just broke up with me yesterday after a huge fight. The reason wasn't because of the fight itself but rather how I handle the fight. I need space to deal with my anger and he can't handle having space so we fight and it's become a cycle which he can't deal with anymore. I tried begging for a last chance but he kept saying he cant/couldn't. That went on for about an hour and a half before the call ended. Throughout the call he kept saying he couldn't (and was adamant about it) but also that he would have to think about getting back together hence leading me to be confused as to what we are right now. However, after the call I accidentally called him as his number was next to my friend's and he texted me after asking whats up. I said nothing and after a conversation with my friend, came to agree that the break up was what's best for us. I expressed this to him to which he said "are you sure?" and proceeded to Facetime me to tell me he's really sad and that I'm too important to not have in his daily life. It seems like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. I'm upset and would just like to know how to deal with all the sadness I have right now. I'm going into my first year of uni in September and as I am an international student, it'll be a big transition. He's supposed to be my guidance as he's already been in the uni for one year but now I don't know. Everything is falling apart and I don't know what to do..