Urgh, I sympathise. I hate mine, it's a bugger finding tops which fit on the bust and the waist. Have you tried a fairly tight vest top under a looser-fitting cardigan, with a belt, some jewellery or a little scarf to smarten it up? I'm not a fan of stretchy wrap tops, especially if your stomach isn't flat - I'd go for a shirt instead (NOT a blouse), with a belt, the top few buttons open to show some beads and a vest underneath.