Well what do u like? Other parts of the ear generally take longer to heal. Getting my cartilage pierced was a pain in the ass. If ur not getting ur second/third part of the lobes done then u really have to take care of it and clean it about three times a day or ur gonna get those bumps. I think they’re called keloids ? PLEASE DO NOT PIERCE WITH A GUN IF ITS NOT UR LOBES. U should check out LuLu’s Body Piercing on yt or ig if u need some inspo or wanna see the process.