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So I've met up with this guy last week and we went to pizza express and I'm seeing him again tommorow to go bowling and I think that he likes me but I don't like him in that way he seems like a nice guy but I'm not attracted to him so I don't know what to do
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you just tell him early on
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pretty much what lemon27 said. you rather say now that you like him as a friend rather than breaking his heart later on.
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Well I did tell him that I like him as a friend but I just don't wanna sleep with him and he's gonna want that at some point
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Make it clear that you're not attracted to him. If you enjoy his company and would still want to hang out with him in a nonromantic way, tell him that too.

We don't know an awful lot about the situation, so just some general advice: make your feelings known!
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Ask him if you can bring a friend along with you to the bowling. That's the most obvious yet indirect way of saying no mate, not gonna happen.
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I don't wanna bring a friend I like hanging out with him I just don't wanna sleep with him
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Then tell him 'You're like a brother to me', most people don't wanna sleep with their sibling so it's another obvious yet nice way of saying no.
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(Original post by cherlloydfan)
So I've met up with this guy last week and we went to pizza express and I'm seeing him again tommorow to go bowling and I think that he likes me but I don't like him in that way he seems like a nice guy but I'm not attracted to him so I don't know what to do
You should cut to the chase as soon as possible and when the right moment of time has come just to prevent misunderstandings.
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