You can't flirt? Or would you rather not put the time and effort in to learn how to flirt and wallow in your self-pity instead?
That's simply not true. I know people with autism who are sexually successful.
Even if I quit my job and put time into trying to flirt, I’d still be terrible and stupid at it. I. CAN. NOT. FLIRT. It’s not possible for me with my brain wiring.
look at the show Undateables. It's about people severely on the spectrum, physically deformed, tourettes, little person lol, and all sorts, who use an actual matchmaking service in UK to meet open minded people or other special needs singles go find that company and join, they'll help you and Im being serious.
Having Asperger's is not the end of the world. You're putting up barriers for yourself. If you want to find a girlfriend you can get one, stop making everything so one dimensional, you are more than your Asperger's.
My son has never had a problem with the ladies. He’s now 25 and has had his current relationship for 4 years! There have been plenty of two week wonders over time He has adhd as well as Aspergers but it hasn’t stopped him being a success. He has a degree and a very good job. The key to relationships is just to be yourself. Don’t try too hard. It’s impossible to keep up. The right person will come along. You’ll kiss a lot of frogs before you find your perfect other half but it will happen
My son has never had a problem with the ladies. He’s now 25 and has had his current relationship for 4 years! There have been plenty of two week wonders over time He has adhd as well as Aspergers but it hasn’t stopped him being a success. He has a degree and a very good job. The key to relationships is just to be yourself. Don’t try too hard. It’s impossible to keep up. The right person will come along. You’ll kiss a lot of frogs before you find your perfect other half but it will happen
I wish that was true. You don’t have a picture of your son with a girlfriend.
And I WILL NEVER EVER BE MYSELF. That’s the wrong advice. I’m shy and awkward by nature, no woman likes that. It doesn’t matter what good qualities you have, if your social skills are bad, all else fails.
I have to fake someone I’m not to even have a chance of getting a date who will destroy my heart later. At least I’ll get a first kiss. If I continue to be myself, I’ll die single. Worst advice ever.
Even if I quit my job and put time into trying to flirt, I’d still be terrible and stupid at it. I. CAN. NOT. FLIRT. It’s not possible for me with my brain wiring.
As others have told you all day, your attitude is the problem.
Other people deal with their own sh*t so stop wallowing, talk to any professional people you need and fix your problems. Having a condition won't always hold you back, but whining and self loathing will.
I am a pathetic person for being autistic. My life is a joke and nobody takes me seriously.
see this is your problem. you aren’t pathetic because of your Aspergers, you’re just pathetic and BLAMING it on the Aspergers so that people will give you sympathy. well sorry mate, not getting any from me