You're not lesbian, you're confused. Don't jump to conclusions and assume I'm homophobic, cos I'm not. Your situation describes mine EXACTLY. I don't like the way women look, but for some reason I got strange feelings for a few girl friends. I hated it. Let me tell you how to escape these thoughts- stop masturbating. over time, you'll forget what it's like having sec with girls. Then find a guy you really like and marry him. Trust me, science proves that over half of the LGBT community is really just confused, and got influenced by society. I was totally confused, til someone told me I was going through a phase. I didn't believe them, and I went along with what my gay friends were telling me, that I was gay. But when I actually started dating a girl, it hit me how sad my life was. I would never have a husband, I would never have my own children with someone I loved! Don't let lesbian thoughts ruin your life. Break up with any girlfriend(S) you may have.