I have been reading some threads here on this forum and can see a lot of youngsters just want to loose their virginity and get over with it, like its a plague. Why are they scared of remaining virgin. Seriously! what is up with that? Does loosing virginity give people medal of achievement in their social circle that you will miss out if you remain virgin or what? Staying virgin for long is portrayed like its a bad thing. What!!..
And it's because sex is fun. So why not have it?
It's a bit weird. I guess lots of them associate it with coming of age. I was never that bothered, personally.
Last edited by gjd800; 5 months ago
I am talking about when people start worrying and portray it as a bad thing if they remain virgin in their 20's or later and start thinking what other people might say or think.
Just remember - if you take someone's virginity, you become a virgin.
Losing your virginity is a form of validation for some people. If you remain a virgin, not by choice, beyond the age at which most people have had such experience , you start asking yourself "Why does no one want to be intimate with me?" "Why can't I form the connections that other people can?" "Do I even deserve to be loved?"
Last edited by Sataris; 5 months ago
cause then you get to sit at the cool kids table at lunch
Let me clarify. I am talking about people who worry so much about staying virgin, and from their way of explanation it seems like they are afraid of staying virgin in their 20's or later in life, thinking what other people might say, its not for their personal satisfaction but rather checklist of things they want to get over with as quickly as possible because staying virgin in 20's or later seems awkward to them. This clearly shows that its more of a social/peer pressure than anything else.
It's bizarre how that's a thing. I'm in year 13 and I've heard people "showing off" of sorts about losing their virginity since year 10-- they were WAY too young at 15/16 back then.
I guess it really is just a way of initiation. At least if you get a STD, you have proof, because it was "worth it just for fun" without getting tested beforehand.
It really should be something more special, such as doing it with someone you genuinely like (or at least for the first time).
From what I've gathered, I'm pretty much the only virgin left in the year (about 75 of us) and that's by choice-- mainly because I'm a lesbian who hasn't come out yet, but that's a whole different story!!! XD
Last edited by ZombieWolf2k12; 4 months ago
Some people feel llike they don't fir in if they haven't lost it especially when they get older and all their friends are telling them about how good it is, then they take the pi*s out of you because you can't loose it. Not gonna lie but there is a lot of pressure of both lads and girls now. It is a load of bull****
i want to have sex.........................why is it sooooooooooo f*cking hard to find an aneastically pleasing man ...............