What is the oldest age you find sexually attractive? and state your genderWatch
oldest age: probably in the 30s - not necessarily for me to date but just candy for my eyes. I only date girls younger than me, though.
youngest: 15. Anything below I see as a sister
However, I do find some women in their 40's or so attractive in a kind of hot mum way, but most of the people I'm attracted to tend to be close to my age.
I am female, only date guys at least 15 years older.
When I broke up with the ex he was in his early 40s, I was 19.
I'm 23, would happily date a man in his 50s.
The youngest man I've ever dated was 6 years older than me, and I was 18 at the time so I'd say that was a significant gap.
EDIT: I don't actually think you can really make a decision about who you would and wouldn't date until you're in that situation. What if you meet someone who's 20 years older than you - like I did - and you just get on so well and everything is perfect? What then? Do you deny yourself potentially your best chance of happiness just because they don't fit into an age range you set when you didn't even know them?
I wouldn't really say there was an upper limit on women i find sexually attractive ..but I can't remember finding anyone above 60 desirable, and realistically i would not enter a long term monogamous relationship with anyone more than 5 years older than myself.
I don't believe most people have tight upper limits tbh.
I was standing outside a shop today and these two girls walked past and one was checking me out in rather a confrontational manor like she was looking for a reaction. I felt kinda awkward so didn't give one. about 10 minutes later they came back the same way and went into the shop, before they got to shop both of them were now checking me out, and i heard something like "he is cute"
the girls looked about 8!
Thanks to you two for candor and honesty. Appreciate your statements very much. Before I discovered your comments, I felt so embarrassed to have a crush on women in the age of 40 as a man in the 30s. Now I learnt my feeling was so ridiculous.
Plenty of celebrity woman happily date and marry younger men.
The movie director Samantha Taylor-Wood is married to Aaron Johnson.
They met when he was 18 and she was 42, now they have two children together and both use the surname Taylor-Johnson.
Actresses Barbara Windsor and Linda Lusardi too.
For dating probably would only go between +2 / -5 years though. if I was really into a woman over 5 years above me I guess I wouldn't say no, but I would look at her in a bit of a motherly way (...which feels unusual but kind of sweet lol). but nature generally leans towards the vice versa of a younger woman looking at older men in a fatherly way and/or for father traits. And these aren't often perceived present in a younger man...as said in prev posts due to both physical and mental maturity and their postion in life
edit - didn't realise this thread was so old, ugh.