So a few days ago (it's a Monday, and what happened was last Thursday) my boyfriend and I tried to have sex for the first time. He's experienced and I am not. I'm completely a virgin unless you count oral sex and some light fingering. At first, I was fairly confident in us having sex. I didn't think I'd be like other girls because I was ready, but boy was I wrong. Not only did it hurt (A LOT), but he couldn't even get the full penis in. I'm pretty sure he didn't even get it in half-way. Every time he would go to put it in, my muscles would tighten up and I'd let out a yelp so he had no choice but to pull out. Afterwards, I ended up bleeding and we are now both feeling really discouraged and he's worried about hurting me again. Now today, just a few days later, I tried fingering myself (which I have done no problem on my own before) but for some reason it was uncomfortable and hurt. I also bled. Which has never happened to me when I finger myself. I'm getting concerned that there is something wrong and I won't be able to handle penetration. Can anyone offer me some tips and helpful advice? I'm really scared and want to have sex with my boyfriend! But we're both so nervous now... Help!