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my bf is a punk and i hate him!

i will kill him i swear. it's like the ****ing cold war with him.

okay tonight was the first time i've talked to him in 5 days.. (we were both away for the weekend and i was busy with school) at first it was all fine and dandy, then i went to a gift website somebody suggested around here and told him that the pen+fishing rod was rad and i would get it for his birthday. instead of a thank you, he had the nerve to say 'wtf am i gonna do with that' (i almost said, 'shove it up your ass is what i'll do with it!) and i was like geeezz i didn't know i had to get you something practical :rolleyes: at this point i was being a jerk deliberately (reactionary!) and said fine i'll get you a welcome mat and i started running down a list of domestic items for him and he said this was getting stupid (it was) but i was so angry!! like firstly i'm not obligated to get him anything. he should be thankful and not act like a dick. secondly, he can't talk to me like i'm a grade A moron!
so after that i said geezz you can't please some ppl and he was like i don't need material possessions. so i went omg what a communists and he said do you even know what that means!!!! AAAAAAAARRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH i'm studying the Cold War right now you ****ing idiot!!!!!!!!! GGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRR i didn't say anything back, was dumbfounded + mad. i was seriously mad, it was like he thinks i'm an idiot or something. (just because i said pun was the lowest form of sense of humour!! it was actually sarcasm. i disagree, pun is more embarrassing)

anyway he really pissed me off tonight. i want to talk to him about it but i'm too mad! what do you think? think i'm overreacting or was he a dick?

sometimes i feel like i love him more than he loves me but then the little things he does just makes it hard for me to leave :s-smilie:

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Reply 1
This is an angry, violent post.
**** **** ************* **** AAAAAAAARGH *****
aggressive much?
Reply 3
You are REALLY overreacting. Yes he was a little insensitive with his comment, but you have gone way way over the top with your reaction.
Reply 4
The soon to be had make up sex will be epic I'm sure.
wow...lotsa swearing
lol

erm...maybe ur over reacting just a bit...?
*gives pandora7 bag of chill pills*

take them.

please.
Reply 7
If you hate him that much why are you with him?
Reply 8
A slight over-reaction I think.

Just talk to him and tell him he's a bum.
Reply 9
pandora7

sometimes i feel like i love him more than he loves me


I disagree. :s-smilie:
Reply 10
Pmt?
i think you have problems. There is really no need to be so angry over this.

What if he says something wrong again? I'm suprised you haven't stabbed him with your ****ing rad pen+fishing rod yet.
Reply 12
lol yeah i am overreacting A BIT but i'm soo mad right now. like i'm actually shaking out of rage. i think this is some pent up anger as well, i had a fight with him last month and we left that unresolved... but still!!! ARGH so angry
Reply 13
lolilady---O
iI'm suprised you haven't stabbed him with your ****ing rad pen+fishing rod yet.

i havent bought it yet.

and i don't have a problem, just especially annoyed.
Reply 14
pandora7
lol yeah i am overreacting A BIT but i'm soo mad right now. like i'm actually shaking out of rage. i think this is some pent up anger as well, i had a fight with him last month and we left that unresolved... but still!!! ARGH so angry


Why? He only asked you what use he'd have for a pen/fishing rod.
Reply 15
Come on, the OP's probably just needing to let off a little - okay a lot of - steam. I just had a moment like this although I kept it to my blog - OP, p'raps if you're this angry next time, just write it down on a piece of paper and burn it. Go and watch a film and relax or something and cool down.
Reply 16
i LOL'd
Reply 17
It seems that calm, diplomatic, sensible communication may be the key to making your relationship work
Reply 18
pandora7
lol yeah i am overreacting A BIT but i'm soo mad right now. like i'm actually shaking out of rage. i think this is some pent up anger as well, i had a fight with him last month and we left that unresolved... but still!!! ARGH so angry


I would so badly LOL in your face right now if I could.
Reply 19
I can't see how his being a punk, if he is even that cause your post doesn't show how he is, has anything to do with this.

To be fair, the gift idea was daft and he was right in calling you out on it; does he like fishing? You then totally blew the lid and overreacted.