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cherlloydfan
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So I've met up with this guy from the internet three times now and I'm seeing him again in a few days, nothings happened but I think that he likes me and I said that I like him as a friend cos I'm not sexually attracted to him and I don't wanna have sex with him but I think that he is expecting it to happen at some point and hes a virgin so should I carry on seeing him as a friend or be his gf cos hes a nice guy but I don't fancy him?
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Well obviously don't get into a relationship with him if you don't like him. There's nothing wrong with just being friends with a guy and you don't have to sleep with him either.
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Don't be someone's girlfriend when you don't fancy them, it never ends well. Just keep a bit of distance between you, try and let him get over his feelings for you. If you did date him, it would be playing with his feelings.
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But the thing is I do want a bf I just don't want sex
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(Original post by cherlloydfan)
So I've met up with this guy from the internet three times now and I'm seeing him again in a few days, nothings happened but I think that he likes me and I said that I like him as a friend cos I'm not sexually attracted to him and I don't wanna have sex with him but I think that he is expecting it to happen at some point and hes a virgin so should I carry on seeing him as a friend or be his gf cos hes a nice guy but I don't fancy him?
He should find a virgin girl like himself
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(Original post by cherlloydfan)
But the thing is I do want a bf I just don't want sex
Asexual then, or just don’t want sex with him?
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Stop using him and tell him straight that you don't want to have sex with him.
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Stop using him and tell him straight that you don't want to have sex with him.
How am I using him?!
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Asexual then, or just don’t want sex with him?
I just don't want sex with him
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I just don't want sex with him
So tell him that and don't play with his feelings. Don't just get with people to have a boyfriend if you don't want to be with them.
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I just don't want sex with him
You don't find him attractive?
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You don't find him attractive?
No but he is a nice boy
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No but he is a nice boy
Then tell him straight that you like someone else, and point out some random good looking guy to shot him down. The End~
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