My ex-boyfriend is upsset with me🤔

Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 months ago. He still calls almost every 2 days. Right now he's mad at me because he says that I can't accept him the way he is. We got on the topic of "sexual energy". Before we broke up, my 2 female friends came down to visit for my birthday, something seemed a bit off to me so i wasn't the happiest person I guess. When my friends left he proceeded to tell me that he kept think about having a 4some with me and my friends but only if I was okay with it. I told him no, I don't share, it's not something for me. But the fact that you want to be praised for telling me you wanted to **** my friends is ridiculous. He wants me to be "queen of his fantasy" basically saying that he would love it if i was the main female but he had others for his fantasy orgy too. I told him, if that's something that you want to do by all means do it, but it's not something that I want and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Then he proceeded to tell me how I blame my self esteem issues on him but it's entirely my fault for feeling that way, yes he thinks that way but he's with me so why should I worry. With him being upset with me , idk how to feel. I accept him as a person, but that just tells me that we aren't compatible. He's done questionable things over the course of 3 years and now my mind is just all over the place.

Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 months ago. He still calls almost every 2 days. Right now he's mad at me because he says that I can't accept him the way he is. We got on the topic of "sexual energy". Before we broke up, my 2 female friends came down to visit for my birthday, something seemed a bit off to me so i wasn't the happiest person I guess. When my friends left he proceeded to tell me that he kept think about having a 4some with me and my friends but only if I was okay with it. I told him no, I don't share, it's not something for me. But the fact that you want to be praised for telling me you wanted to **** my friends is ridiculous. He wants me to be "queen of his fantasy" basically saying that he would love it if i was the main female but he had others for his fantasy orgy too. I told him, if that's something that you want to do by all means do it, but it's not something that I want and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Then he proceeded to tell me how I blame my self esteem issues on him but it's entirely my fault for feeling that way, yes he thinks that way but he's with me so why should I worry. With him being upset with me , idk how to feel. I accept him as a person, but that just tells me that we aren't compatible. He's done questionable things over the course of 3 years and now my mind is just all over the place.