How do other unattractive guys cope??

If that's how you feel do something about it. Work on fitness, skin/haircare, your style and wardrobe, find something that works with you. If you feel like that inside no amount of temp flattery from pulling will help.

It is impossible

If that's true, suck it up dude. Plenty of other ways to live your life to the full.

My skin on my chest, stomach and legs is in horrible condition and there's nothing to do but, essentially, cut it off and be left deformed with scars and 15,000 pounds debt.

What's wrong with the skin? no point being shy if anon Are we talking a condition or disease? physical injuries? grafts? loose skin after heavy weight loss? What does the deformed 15k deal consist of?

Don't worry, when you get to my age you get used to it.

Basing your self worth on whether someone else likes you just makes you feel worse. Besides, if you're severely lacking in self confidence that isn't going to suddenly change in a relationship. It'll just make any kind of intimacy very awkward, and you'll be constantly paranoid that your woman (or man) is going to leave you for someone else. If you don't like yourself you can't expect anyone else to.

Physical appearance is important if you want that physical attraction but tbh if a guy is confident and can make you laugh, **** it, he can look like jabba the hut and he'll get girls.

Just find a woman in the same position as you.

I don't base my entire self-worth on it but ... it's not unreasonable to feel terrible if no girl has ever liked you back. You probably know all this talk about self-love is easier said than done.



I look fit & athletic clothed which leads some women to assume I must look like a model naked. But I do not, I look like an old man as my skin is messed up. And I wish what you said was true.



Very few if any women have lost 220 pounds, I know no one else in my position irl (I know some Americans who gone through similar things).

After a certain age, all your friends find someone and you're left feeling like a freakshow. I understand what you're trying to say but I think you underestimate how important relationships are to most people.

Very few if any women have lost 220 pounds, I know no one else in my position irl (I know some Americans who gone through similar things).

My skin on my chest, stomach and legs is in horrible condition and there's nothing to do but, essentially, cut it off and be left deformed with scars and 15,000 pounds debt.

I am fairly physically active and I don't think I dress badly.

It is impossible for me to get intimate with a girl as she will be disgusted by my skin, not because I have bad hair, sit on my ass or dress badly.

Knowing that the woman you like is never going to like you back because of your looks?

I have put that feeling under the carpet since high school. But now it's been so long that I can't ignore it anymore and need to find ways to accept it or cope with it.

How do you guys manage?? I am extremely depressed over it.