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Can guys make them selves ***

My bf use to last alot longer now he only last 2 mins why
It should be simple, but in this day and age it is not. I will lay it out for you as best as I can/

1 - Porn. He may be watching porn or a lot more porn then usual. Porno is known to mess up a guys performance.

2 - Anxiety/Depression. Maybe he's going through a lot of personal stuff. Being tensed and stressed really hinders your performance.

3 - Change in Lifestyle. When I lead an active lifestyle, my performance and libido is off the charts. When I lost my job and was kicked out of uni, for a period of time I was doing nothing. I noticed my performance was abysmal.

4 - Relationship. Maybe he just isn't into you? or has someone else on his mind.

All in all, this is something you need to discuss with him, especially if it does not improve. Sex is an integral part of a relationship. If you need anymore info in any of these aspects then give me a shout.

Good luck

Saying this, I can make myself climax without physical contact. But I have years of meditation and tantric exercises (if that means anything to you) under my belt, purely because I'm a very sexual individual.
(edited 5 years ago)

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