Should I message him??? club guy

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So basically im an erasmus student studying abroad. Last year I met two foreigners, as they studied at my home uk uni for a semester. Last night I bumped into one of them, back in their home country where I am now studying this year.

He approached me and said hi and we started talking, in both our languages. He said he was happy to see me again and we chatted for ages. He bought me a drink and then we sat down in the bar and continued chatting, he asked me questions about my year abroad etc and seemed very interested

then he was leaning closer to me whilst speaking and had his hand on my back. He then even asked if he could kiss me. That was nice bc most usually don't even ask. Then we kissed for a while and I find him very attractive.

He asked me back to his but he lives on the other side of town so i said no as i had to get up very early today for some plans. but also I always worry that guys just wanna use me for that and then drop me. he said no problem but as we were making out again he said "oh god i wish i could take u back to mine"

hes so hot and the main reason i didnt go back with him is that im still a virgin and am scared bc i have no contraception and am not a fan of the pill etc at ALL so i was worried of what to do.

but i gave him my number and said he should message me. I dont know him that well as a person but i would love to get to know him more but I dunno if he would or if he wanted a one night thing. he said i was good looking and he said hes going away this weekend but when he gets back into town he will message me/text me (next week).

And when he left he said “ I’ll sleep well tonight".

I wanna meet him and get to know him not just sleep around tho. what do i do?? wait to see if he messages then if he doesnt message him or take it as hes not interested?
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someone pls help
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Tell him to condom instead
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Tell him to condom instead
okay but the point is idk if he likes ME or just *** he said he will text next week but idk
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okay but the point is idk if he likes ME or just *** he said he will text next week but idk
Hes probably a sex only person he wont want a gf. Hes definitely not virgin
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Hes probably a sex only person he wont want a gf. Hes definitely not virgin
I know but he said he wanted to show me round town and stuff so idk
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I know but he said he wanted to show me round town and stuff so idk
he probably does like u but i doubt its a permanent thing
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he probably does like u but i doubt its a permanent thing
maybe he would be willing to make it one if he gets to know me
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maybe he would be willing to make it one if he gets to know me
If u like him then u may as well try. just tell him its ur first time
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he messaged me!! yesterday and he said he would message on tuesday so im happy that hes messaged me already? that must be a good sign right??
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In his message he said he was super happy to see me the other day. I suggested if he gets free time we should meet up and he said he'd love to. But then i suggested a time and place and he said "if it suits you, then illl see you there then " does this mean it doesnt suit him or is "if it suits you" simply a text to say, whatever is good for you workks for me?? do u think hes interested?
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