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this is gonna be long n it may sound stupid but i need advice ...

i’m scared to go into a relationship bc i know this is stupid but i live in a flat and everyone else i know live in houses and that and they always have their boyfriend round with no problem.. i’m scared to tell or bring them round to a flat and they’ll be like wtf?? stupid i know but i’ve always felt ashamed or scared to tell people where i live especially boys?? and my parents are quite strict when it comes to boyfriends and going round their houses and them coming to mine - i’m 18 but they’ve always been quite protective of me when it comes to boys but i just want them to let me go round a boys house with no problem- feel like i’m the only person that has this problem

advice please
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Analyst89
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So what if you've got a flat? you shouldn't feel ashamed.

You can tell your parents when it's the right time.
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My parents are like this and you should NOT feel ashamed, if you feel comfortable telling a guy/boyfriend where you live to hang out with you then do last thing your roommates shouldn't have a problem with it and if they do just bring up the fact that their boyfriends are always around.
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You're 18 so you can go to places without permission I guess. Also if they don't like it just ask them what they did at 18 and if they have had any relationships then you should be able to reason with them.
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