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this is going to be a bit long so I apologise in advance for the length, this is mostly just to vent bc i already know what i'm going to do to sort this situation out.

tl;dr, my roommate's possessive borderline-abusive boyfriend made some vile lesbophobic comments about me on a night out last night and i'm pissed.

ok to provide some context, yes i am a lesbian hurrdurr, and i already had a bad rapport with my roommate's boyfriend from the get go. she and him have been talking very loudly on discord almost every hour we've been at university (from the 22nd of september) and playing league of legends until like 2am when i'm trying to sleep, which is already pretty annoying. i've spoken to her about it and she seems pretty ok with coming off if i ever need to go to sleep early and i do respect her for it. however, her boyfriend is super pissed whenever i try and talk to her if i'm in the room, saying that i'm dragging her away from him which is already an indicator of how whiny and possessive this human potato is (trust me he looks like human shrek copulated with a potato). he's also super creepy towards her, asking for nudes even in the daytime and sending her sex toys and corsets through the mail, and just because he wanted to see the corset over facetime i had to help my roommate put it on which was pretty weird. they also have this pseudo bdsm/ddlg thing going on but that's a whole other can of worms i reeeeally don't want to delve into.

so now the main story, comes this friday when he is due to visit, on his edgy learners motorbike, thank you very much. i'm already annoyed because i'm being booted out of the room for the weekend and i'm in a bedroom by myself because the girls who generously donated their room to me have gone home for the weekend. awesome! i get a whole room by myself for 2 days!! but i couldn't have gotten off that high soon enough.

pre-drinks come around and the resident mother of the house has gone to work at the campus bar, leaving me, the cursed couple and a couple of the mother hen's friends, one who i know from pride society and another girl 3 years my senior. we hit it off because i'm complaining about my weekend situation and the fact that we are the L and the B of the beloved LGBT acronym. another thing that bugged me about the whole situation was that prior to the potato coming up, my roommate said how he never drinks because of family issues surrounding alcohol, which is fair enough. but this guy downs 3 cans of cider and half a craft beer down his gullet before 10:30 which pissed me off because i'm suspecting that my roommate is lying about how bad the bf's life is so i can have a glimmer of sympathy for him. but he acted like he's never experienced a bad thing in his life so i'm super narked about it.

anyways, the main event, the night at the bar! i was a bit tipsy due to me getting the short end of the stick in the drinking games, and during the first 5 minutes of being there, i'd had a panic attack due to the alcohol and the fact that i was already on my own. i chilled outside with a drink trying to subside my terrors for at least half an hour, and when i eventually went back in, i found that my roommate and her bf were grinding on the dancefloor for the whole time and the other friends were smoking outside in the smoking area with little concern for my wellbeing. it sounds pretty selfish but i was a bit hurt that no one gave a damn.

then the B to my L comes along and she was coming onto me and i reciprocated, and for me being in the closet most of my life around my family and friends, having those brief snogs meant a lot to my baby lesbian soul. i was on a high for the rest of the evening, only retiring about half 12ish when i was pretty emotionally exhausted, so i went home with my roommate and her bf. i exchanged more kisses with my B and went home satisfied, if a bit drunk.

now the real stuff!! i said to my walking party that i felt so great being a lesbian and that i'd had a pretty good first time out of the closet experience. then potato edgelord ruins it saying that it would be ""hot"" if we were proper going for it and he was watching. normally i would attribute this to the alcohol but he actually has said something similar over facetime, involving his girlfriend. i was royally pissed. the conversation goes as such:

  • me: not all men would want to see that only decent human beings would never say that
  • bf: i am a decent person! everyone finds it hot
  • me: no, you're just a gross pervert who gets off to lesbians. you're making me uncomfortable so shut up
  • bf: no you're wrong i am a decent person!
  • me: you are not a decent ******* person! you had the nerve to call me a disrespectful ***** just because i wanted to go to bed! (this was another facetime conversation from the last week)


that was the point i stormed away back to the house. all throughout this conversation my roommate stood by her bf and was silent so was obviously on his side. i was in a state and forgot to grab my keys before i left home so i had to slam on the door for someone to let me in before the gross couple got back. thank all the deities in the heavens that our french flatmate got the door open and got me to bed, god bless his soul. i spent the next 3 hours crying to my friend on discord and here i am now the next day typing this up.

for those who are wondering, i'm fine. no hangover and my anxiety has calmed down for the time being. i'm just completely pissed at my inconsiderate roommate and her disgusting boyfriend.
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this is going to be a bit long so I apologise in advance for the length, this is mostly just to vent bc i already know what i'm going to do to sort this situation out.

tl;dr, my roommate's possessive borderline-abusive boyfriend made some vile lesbophobic comments about me on a night out last night and i'm pissed.

ok to provide some context, yes i am a lesbian hurrdurr, and i already had a bad rapport with my roommate's boyfriend from the get go. she and him have been talking very loudly on discord almost every hour we've been at university (from the 22nd of september) and playing league of legends until like 2am when i'm trying to sleep, which is already pretty annoying. i've spoken to her about it and she seems pretty ok with coming off if i ever need to go to sleep early and i do respect her for it. however, her boyfriend is super pissed whenever i try and talk to her if i'm in the room, saying that i'm dragging her away from him which is already an indicator of how whiny and possessive this human potato is (trust me he looks like human shrek copulated with a potato). he's also super creepy towards her, asking for nudes even in the daytime and sending her sex toys and corsets through the mail, and just because he wanted to see the corset over facetime i had to help my roommate put it on which was pretty weird. they also have this pseudo bdsm/ddlg thing going on but that's a whole other can of worms i reeeeally don't want to delve into.

so now the main story, comes this friday when he is due to visit, on his edgy learners motorbike, thank you very much. i'm already annoyed because i'm being booted out of the room for the weekend and i'm in a bedroom by myself because the girls who generously donated their room to me have gone home for the weekend. awesome! i get a whole room by myself for 2 days!! but i couldn't have gotten off that high soon enough.

pre-drinks come around and the resident mother of the house has gone to work at the campus bar, leaving me, the cursed couple and a couple of the mother hen's friends, one who i know from pride society and another girl 3 years my senior. we hit it off because i'm complaining about my weekend situation and the fact that we are the L and the B of the beloved LGBT acronym. another thing that bugged me about the whole situation was that prior to the potato coming up, my roommate said how he never drinks because of family issues surrounding alcohol, which is fair enough. but this guy downs 3 cans of cider and half a craft beer down his gullet before 10:30 which pissed me off because i'm suspecting that my roommate is lying about how bad the bf's life is so i can have a glimmer of sympathy for him. but he acted like he's never experienced a bad thing in his life so i'm super narked about it.

anyways, the main event, the night at the bar! i was a bit tipsy due to me getting the short end of the stick in the drinking games, and during the first 5 minutes of being there, i'd had a panic attack due to the alcohol and the fact that i was already on my own. i chilled outside with a drink trying to subside my terrors for at least half an hour, and when i eventually went back in, i found that my roommate and her bf were grinding on the dancefloor for the whole time and the other friends were smoking outside in the smoking area with little concern for my wellbeing. it sounds pretty selfish but i was a bit hurt that no one gave a damn.

then the B to my L comes along and she was coming onto me and i reciprocated, and for me being in the closet most of my life around my family and friends, having those brief snogs meant a lot to my baby lesbian soul. i was on a high for the rest of the evening, only retiring about half 12ish when i was pretty emotionally exhausted, so i went home with my roommate and her bf. i exchanged more kisses with my B and went home satisfied, if a bit drunk.

now the real stuff!! i said to my walking party that i felt so great being a lesbian and that i'd had a pretty good first time out of the closet experience. then potato edgelord ruins it saying that it would be ""hot"" if we were proper going for it and he was watching. normally i would attribute this to the alcohol but he actually has said something similar over facetime, involving his girlfriend. i was royally pissed. the conversation goes as such:

[ul]
[li]me: not all men would want to see that only decent human beings would never say that[/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]bf: i am a decent person! everyone finds it hot[/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]me: no, you're just a gross pervert who gets off to lesbians. you're making me uncomfortable so shut up[/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]bf: no you're wrong i am a decent person![/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]me: you are not a decent ******* person! you had the nerve to call me a disrespectful ***** just because i wanted to go to bed! (this was another facetime conversation from the last week)[/li]
[/ul]

that was the point i stormed away back to the house. all throughout this conversation my roommate stood by her bf and was silent so was obviously on his side. i was in a state and forgot to grab my keys before i left home so i had to slam on the door for someone to let me in before the gross couple got back. thank all the deities in the heavens that our french flatmate got the door open and got me to bed, god bless his soul. i spent the next 3 hours crying to my friend on discord and here i am now the next day typing this up.

for those who are wondering, i'm fine. no hangover and my anxiety has calmed down for the time being. i'm just completely pissed at my inconsiderate roommate and her disgusting boyfriend.
Looks like you're all on about the same level really, you sound like one of those nightmarishly self important people.
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Looks like you're all on about the same level really, you sound like one of those nightmarishly self important people.
i guess you're right, i do act a bit selfishly and self-important which is something i need to work on. i don't blame you for thinking it as an outsider of the situation so i'm not having a go at you. i think though actually experiencing this whole thing that's going on with my roommate i've kind of been pushed aside and treated as a lesser person in my own accommodation which sucks and i do feel i have a right to be selfish in terms of the boyfriend being rude to me. he's basically treated me like **** ever since i've known him and i feel i have a right to have a go.
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this is going to be a bit long so I apologise in advance for the length, this is mostly just to vent bc i already know what i'm going to do to sort this situation out.

tl;dr, my roommate's possessive borderline-abusive boyfriend made some vile lesbophobic comments about me on a night out last night and i'm pissed.

ok to provide some context, yes i am a lesbian hurrdurr, and i already had a bad rapport with my roommate's boyfriend from the get go. she and him have been talking very loudly on discord almost every hour we've been at university (from the 22nd of september) and playing league of legends until like 2am when i'm trying to sleep, which is already pretty annoying. i've spoken to her about it and she seems pretty ok with coming off if i ever need to go to sleep early and i do respect her for it. however, her boyfriend is super pissed whenever i try and talk to her if i'm in the room, saying that i'm dragging her away from him which is already an indicator of how whiny and possessive this human potato is (trust me he looks like human shrek copulated with a potato). he's also super creepy towards her, asking for nudes even in the daytime and sending her sex toys and corsets through the mail, and just because he wanted to see the corset over facetime i had to help my roommate put it on which was pretty weird. they also have this pseudo bdsm/ddlg thing going on but that's a whole other can of worms i reeeeally don't want to delve into.

so now the main story, comes this friday when he is due to visit, on his edgy learners motorbike, thank you very much. i'm already annoyed because i'm being booted out of the room for the weekend and i'm in a bedroom by myself because the girls who generously donated their room to me have gone home for the weekend. awesome! i get a whole room by myself for 2 days!! but i couldn't have gotten off that high soon enough.

pre-drinks come around and the resident mother of the house has gone to work at the campus bar, leaving me, the cursed couple and a couple of the mother hen's friends, one who i know from pride society and another girl 3 years my senior. we hit it off because i'm complaining about my weekend situation and the fact that we are the L and the B of the beloved LGBT acronym. another thing that bugged me about the whole situation was that prior to the potato coming up, my roommate said how he never drinks because of family issues surrounding alcohol, which is fair enough. but this guy downs 3 cans of cider and half a craft beer down his gullet before 10:30 which pissed me off because i'm suspecting that my roommate is lying about how bad the bf's life is so i can have a glimmer of sympathy for him. but he acted like he's never experienced a bad thing in his life so i'm super narked about it.

anyways, the main event, the night at the bar! i was a bit tipsy due to me getting the short end of the stick in the drinking games, and during the first 5 minutes of being there, i'd had a panic attack due to the alcohol and the fact that i was already on my own. i chilled outside with a drink trying to subside my terrors for at least half an hour, and when i eventually went back in, i found that my roommate and her bf were grinding on the dancefloor for the whole time and the other friends were smoking outside in the smoking area with little concern for my wellbeing. it sounds pretty selfish but i was a bit hurt that no one gave a damn.

then the B to my L comes along and she was coming onto me and i reciprocated, and for me being in the closet most of my life around my family and friends, having those brief snogs meant a lot to my baby lesbian soul. i was on a high for the rest of the evening, only retiring about half 12ish when i was pretty emotionally exhausted, so i went home with my roommate and her bf. i exchanged more kisses with my B and went home satisfied, if a bit drunk.

now the real stuff!! i said to my walking party that i felt so great being a lesbian and that i'd had a pretty good first time out of the closet experience. then potato edgelord ruins it saying that it would be ""hot"" if we were proper going for it and he was watching. normally i would attribute this to the alcohol but he actually has said something similar over facetime, involving his girlfriend. i was royally pissed. the conversation goes as such:

[ul]
[li]me: not all men would want to see that only decent human beings would never say that[/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]bf: i am a decent person! everyone finds it hot[/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]me: no, you're just a gross pervert who gets off to lesbians. you're making me uncomfortable so shut up[/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]bf: no you're wrong i am a decent person![/li]
[/ul]
[ul]
[li]me: you are not a decent ******* person! you had the nerve to call me a disrespectful ***** just because i wanted to go to bed! (this was another facetime conversation from the last week)[/li]
[/ul]

that was the point i stormed away back to the house. all throughout this conversation my roommate stood by her bf and was silent so was obviously on his side. i was in a state and forgot to grab my keys before i left home so i had to slam on the door for someone to let me in before the gross couple got back. thank all the deities in the heavens that our french flatmate got the door open and got me to bed, god bless his soul. i spent the next 3 hours crying to my friend on discord and here i am now the next day typing this up.

for those who are wondering, i'm fine. no hangover and my anxiety has calmed down for the time being. i'm just completely pissed at my inconsiderate roommate and her disgusting boyfriend.

Guys do find it hot. He wasn't lying

I think you dislike him so much that you are finding fault with everything he says or does

you overeacted, and I read through all that essay because I wanted to see the "vile lesbophobic comments" and all the dude said was it was "hot"

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Is lesophobic a thing?

Plus guys do find a bit of girl on girl action hot.
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Is lesophobic a thing?

Plus guys do find a bit of girl on girl action hot.
Men making derogatory comments like this about lesbians is in fact lesbophobia. It is not sexy and is extremely discomforting to know that a guy is using the fact that i kiss girls for his daily ****. It also doesn't help in humanizing us and making us out to be walking porn machines. Please step off.
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He does sound like a blunt moron with no tact but to be fair to him he was telling the truth, not just being edgy for the sake of it. Guys do find watching lesbian stuff hot- it's one of the top porn categories on most websites. It's unfair to call him a pervert for that although I would say most guys probably would be considered perverts bu most women if they were truthful.

Just tell him you are not comfortable with such comments and hopefully he'll be receptive to that. Also try to have a sense of humour, this is just college banter for you and he was probably half joking.
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'Potato Edgelord' - works for me.

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this is going to be a bit long so I apologise in advance for the length, this is mostly just to vent bc i already know what i'm going to do to sort this situation out.

tl;dr, my roommate's possessive borderline-abusive boyfriend made some vile lesbophobic comments about me on a night out last night and i'm pissed.

ok to provide some context, yes i am a lesbian hurrdurr, and i already had a bad rapport with my roommate's boyfriend from the get go. she and him have been talking very loudly on discord almost every hour we've been at university (from the 22nd of september) and playing league of legends until like 2am when i'm trying to sleep, which is already pretty annoying. i've spoken to her about it and she seems pretty ok with coming off if i ever need to go to sleep early and i do respect her for it. however, her boyfriend is super pissed whenever i try and talk to her if i'm in the room, saying that i'm dragging her away from him which is already an indicator of how whiny and possessive this human potato is (trust me he looks like human shrek copulated with a potato). he's also super creepy towards her, asking for nudes even in the daytime and sending her sex toys and corsets through the mail, and just because he wanted to see the corset over facetime i had to help my roommate put it on which was pretty weird. they also have this pseudo bdsm/ddlg thing going on but that's a whole other can of worms i reeeeally don't want to delve into.

so now the main story, comes this friday when he is due to visit, on his edgy learners motorbike, thank you very much. i'm already annoyed because i'm being booted out of the room for the weekend and i'm in a bedroom by myself because the girls who generously donated their room to me have gone home for the weekend. awesome! i get a whole room by myself for 2 days!! but i couldn't have gotten off that high soon enough.

pre-drinks come around and the resident mother of the house has gone to work at the campus bar, leaving me, the cursed couple and a couple of the mother hen's friends, one who i know from pride society and another girl 3 years my senior. we hit it off because i'm complaining about my weekend situation and the fact that we are the L and the B of the beloved LGBT acronym. another thing that bugged me about the whole situation was that prior to the potato coming up, my roommate said how he never drinks because of family issues surrounding alcohol, which is fair enough. but this guy downs 3 cans of cider and half a craft beer down his gullet before 10:30 which pissed me off because i'm suspecting that my roommate is lying about how bad the bf's life is so i can have a glimmer of sympathy for him. but he acted like he's never experienced a bad thing in his life so i'm super narked about it.

anyways, the main event, the night at the bar! i was a bit tipsy due to me getting the short end of the stick in the drinking games, and during the first 5 minutes of being there, i'd had a panic attack due to the alcohol and the fact that i was already on my own. i chilled outside with a drink trying to subside my terrors for at least half an hour, and when i eventually went back in, i found that my roommate and her bf were grinding on the dancefloor for the whole time and the other friends were smoking outside in the smoking area with little concern for my wellbeing. it sounds pretty selfish but i was a bit hurt that no one gave a damn.

then the B to my L comes along and she was coming onto me and i reciprocated, and for me being in the closet most of my life around my family and friends, having those brief snogs meant a lot to my baby lesbian soul. i was on a high for the rest of the evening, only retiring about half 12ish when i was pretty emotionally exhausted, so i went home with my roommate and her bf. i exchanged more kisses with my B and went home satisfied, if a bit drunk.

now the real stuff!! i said to my walking party that i felt so great being a lesbian and that i'd had a pretty good first time out of the closet experience. then potato edgelord ruins it saying that it would be ""hot"" if we were proper going for it and he was watching. normally i would attribute this to the alcohol but he actually has said something similar over facetime, involving his girlfriend. i was royally pissed. the conversation goes as such:

  • me: not all men would want to see that only decent human beings would never say that
  • bf: i am a decent person! everyone finds it hot
  • me: no, you're just a gross pervert who gets off to lesbians. you're making me uncomfortable so shut up
  • bf: no you're wrong i am a decent person!
  • me: you are not a decent ******* person! you had the nerve to call me a disrespectful ***** just because i wanted to go to bed! (this was another facetime conversation from the last week)


that was the point i stormed away back to the house. all throughout this conversation my roommate stood by her bf and was silent so was obviously on his side. i was in a state and forgot to grab my keys before i left home so i had to slam on the door for someone to let me in before the gross couple got back. thank all the deities in the heavens that our french flatmate got the door open and got me to bed, god bless his soul. i spent the next 3 hours crying to my friend on discord and here i am now the next day typing this up.

for those who are wondering, i'm fine. no hangover and my anxiety has calmed down for the time being. i'm just completely pissed at my inconsiderate roommate and her disgusting boyfriend.
I'm not being rude, but this post is over 1,000 words. A small essay. It would be really helpful if you put a tl;dr in.
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Of course guys will find girl on girl action hot because they like girls and there's two of them.

Still doesn't make it right to say it and make things uncomfortable but I'm used to that these days and always just flipped the guys off when I was with my ex lol

If he really upsets you I think you should try and distance yourself the best you can
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You are feeling overwhelmed because you're finally able to express yourself for the first time. I think you're overreacting because of that. Kissing a girl is new to you, but he has probably never witnessed that outside of porn. He's immature and he will grow up eventually.

You should try to talk to him because you'll be seeing each other quite a lot. He's immature and insecure, but maybe he isn't a bad person.
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I'm not being rude, but this post is over 1,000 words. A small essay. It would be really helpful if you put a tl;dr in.
She did
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She did
Oh yes, you're right. I didn't get that far...
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Oh yes, you're right. I didn't get that far...
Cracking story though
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Cracking story though
:lol: Totally. I might have changed the ending slightly. The wheels fell off for me just before the bulleted list.
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Oh yes, you're right. I didn't get that far...


lmao

The wall was so formidable that you had given up by line three.....
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lmao

The wall was so formidable that you had given up by line three.....
:lol: starting a tale with 'this is going to be a bit long' didn't bode well for me. But as Zarek points out, it's a better read than it initially looks.
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this is going to be a bit long so I apologise in advance for the length, this is mostly just to vent bc i already know what i'm going to do to sort this situation out.

tl;dr, my roommate's possessive borderline-abusive boyfriend made some vile lesbophobic comments about me on a night out last night and i'm pissed.

ok to provide some context, yes i am a lesbian hurrdurr, and i already had a bad rapport with my roommate's boyfriend from the get go. she and him have been talking very loudly on discord almost every hour we've been at university (from the 22nd of september) and playing league of legends until like 2am when i'm trying to sleep, which is already pretty annoying. i've spoken to her about it and she seems pretty ok with coming off if i ever need to go to sleep early and i do respect her for it. however, her boyfriend is super pissed whenever i try and talk to her if i'm in the room, saying that i'm dragging her away from him which is already an indicator of how whiny and possessive this human potato is (trust me he looks like human shrek copulated with a potato). he's also super creepy towards her, asking for nudes even in the daytime and sending her sex toys and corsets through the mail, and just because he wanted to see the corset over facetime i had to help my roommate put it on which was pretty weird. they also have this pseudo bdsm/ddlg thing going on but that's a whole other can of worms i reeeeally don't want to delve into.

so now the main story, comes this friday when he is due to visit, on his edgy learners motorbike, thank you very much. i'm already annoyed because i'm being booted out of the room for the weekend and i'm in a bedroom by myself because the girls who generously donated their room to me have gone home for the weekend. awesome! i get a whole room by myself for 2 days!! but i couldn't have gotten off that high soon enough.

pre-drinks come around and the resident mother of the house has gone to work at the campus bar, leaving me, the cursed couple and a couple of the mother hen's friends, one who i know from pride society and another girl 3 years my senior. we hit it off because i'm complaining about my weekend situation and the fact that we are the L and the B of the beloved LGBT acronym. another thing that bugged me about the whole situation was that prior to the potato coming up, my roommate said how he never drinks because of family issues surrounding alcohol, which is fair enough. but this guy downs 3 cans of cider and half a craft beer down his gullet before 10:30 which pissed me off because i'm suspecting that my roommate is lying about how bad the bf's life is so i can have a glimmer of sympathy for him. but he acted like he's never experienced a bad thing in his life so i'm super narked about it.

anyways, the main event, the night at the bar! i was a bit tipsy due to me getting the short end of the stick in the drinking games, and during the first 5 minutes of being there, i'd had a panic attack due to the alcohol and the fact that i was already on my own. i chilled outside with a drink trying to subside my terrors for at least half an hour, and when i eventually went back in, i found that my roommate and her bf were grinding on the dancefloor for the whole time and the other friends were smoking outside in the smoking area with little concern for my wellbeing. it sounds pretty selfish but i was a bit hurt that no one gave a damn.

then the B to my L comes along and she was coming onto me and i reciprocated, and for me being in the closet most of my life around my family and friends, having those brief snogs meant a lot to my baby lesbian soul. i was on a high for the rest of the evening, only retiring about half 12ish when i was pretty emotionally exhausted, so i went home with my roommate and her bf. i exchanged more kisses with my B and went home satisfied, if a bit drunk.

now the real stuff!! i said to my walking party that i felt so great being a lesbian and that i'd had a pretty good first time out of the closet experience. then potato edgelord ruins it saying that it would be ""hot"" if we were proper going for it and he was watching. normally i would attribute this to the alcohol but he actually has said something similar over facetime, involving his girlfriend. i was royally pissed. the conversation goes as such:

  • me: not all men would want to see that only decent human beings would never say that
  • bf: i am a decent person! everyone finds it hot
  • me: no, you're just a gross pervert who gets off to lesbians. you're making me uncomfortable so shut up
  • bf: no you're wrong i am a decent person!
  • me: you are not a decent ******* person! you had the nerve to call me a disrespectful ***** just because i wanted to go to bed! (this was another facetime conversation from the last week)


that was the point i stormed away back to the house. all throughout this conversation my roommate stood by her bf and was silent so was obviously on his side. i was in a state and forgot to grab my keys before i left home so i had to slam on the door for someone to let me in before the gross couple got back. thank all the deities in the heavens that our french flatmate got the door open and got me to bed, god bless his soul. i spent the next 3 hours crying to my friend on discord and here i am now the next day typing this up.

for those who are wondering, i'm fine. no hangover and my anxiety has calmed down for the time being. i'm just completely pissed at my inconsiderate roommate and her disgusting boyfriend.
You and your roommate's boyfriend sound autistic. Lol, get a life.
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You also sound very judgemental and difficult tbh. You're right it's a homophobic thing to say that lesbians are hot. But as you can see on this thread it's pretty normal to eroticise lesbians. Youd be better off explaining politely why it's offensive to try and help him learn.
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