Update!!! Hi all my doctor said , I have orgasmic incontinence during masturbation, there are two types of coital incontinence , 1during sex and 2 during solo play, Every one is different but this makes sense , if it happens during sex is due to possible weak pelvic floor muscles and if it happens when you use toys ,the main reason is due to an overactive bladder, it will spasm during stimulation from a vibe, this is happening when I use the vibrator on the clit and I get the contraction , it's making my bladder spasm which is called urge incontinence uncontrollably! Repeated peeing not what I wanted ! so it looks like I have an overactive bladder. The detrusor muscle , I think it's called . I have tryed going to loo beforehand , thinking this would stop it happening and 30 mins again after I still pee. Alot id say like A3 paper size amount, using the vibe lol Unfortunately ! But my doctor said medication can stop this for me. 🙂 And they also want me to see a urologist aswell , so il update again when they see me