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Hi, im 19 years old and so is my step sister.. i'll try to keep this as short as possible

to start off.. i'd like to make something clear. im not trolling and i desperately need advice. and tbh im not one of those guys that pretend they "Hate sex"cause i dont. i fu*king love it!! however when i say im being used i mean she only **** me when she wants to. Let me shed some light into it

so 2 years ago my mom got married, and both the new step dad and my step sister were nice people.. me and my step sister got along pretty well and our parents were glad we were so close. However for some reason in that "alone time" we were spending we ended up kissing each other. but eventually i moved to another city for college. the time i was away she tried to message me like a couple but i ignored her knowing very well it wont happen.. i came back this year on january and our relation was still solid and pretended like nothing happened.

This one day we were home alone and i was in my room watching netflix. she came and sat next to me in my bed asking what i was watching while touching my thighs and pretending she was very interested in the movie i was watching, and to be honest things escalated very fast after that and we ended up having sex. ngl we enjoyed it and we did it on a daily basis as long as we were home alone which most of the times we were!!

few months pasts and things started to change.. we then started having sex wheneva she wanted to it wouldnt matter where or how.. like one day i was doing the dishes and she came up to me randomly heavily kissing me and lifting her skirt up. its like she was possesed and just wanted me to **** her

on my case however.. if im horny and i want to scr*w her she sometimes rejects and gets very mad about it. and i hate that

i know what we're doing is wrong. i tried to stop myself but couldnt since after all im living in the same house with a hot girl that comes in my room late at night in a bikini.

I hate the fact that shes using me for sex, i like the whole sex thing but being used is what i mostly dont agree with.

Any advice/help please?
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If she forces you into sex with her in a situation where you don't want it, it is possible to categorise it as rape? I don't know how things work in legal terminologies.
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If she forces you into sex with her in a situation where you don't want it, it is possible to categorise it as rape? I don't know how things work in legal terminologies.
I cant let anyone know about our sex relationship. especially not our parents.. and i was the one that took her virginity away. weve been having a sex relationship over a year now
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Sorry to say but this will not end well for anyone.
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heres the thing. just because she lufts her skirt does not mean you have to drop your pants. sorry to be so crude about it but thats how it is.

you cant say in one breath you love the situatiin and in another you dont. make up your own mind first then stick to it. if yiu dont want to carry on having sex then dont it is as simple as that.

the fact you are step brother and sister quite frankly is irrelivent your mum made the choice to marry in to that family not you or her an you was both old enough to make yiur own minds up when that happened. its not incest an it is not wrong just a little awquad given your parents are together.

the point of what i am saying is that yiu do hold some cards aswell. to act like you are a slave to yiur penis is a poor excuse for yiur own choice of sleeping with her. two little letters is all you need. however i get the feeling yiu would prefare to carry on but on your terms rather than hers and im sorry but it doesnt alwats work like that.

is there a possability she wants more than just a quick jump but you have brushed her off to many times so she is taking what she can from you.
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This seems like a porn scenario and it's very hard to believe. IF it's true, then you could deeply hurt and humiliate your mum. You could also ruin her marriage and her faith in you.

You are both using each other for sex. You want us to feel sorry for you because she denies you sometimes? You are the complete opposite of a victim in this situation. You don't give a crap about your mum and this is what your focus is? You're like a sociopath. I really hope you're trolling.
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If you're going to be a judge you might as well apply for X factor. i didnt come foward to get critised about banging my step sister. If its one choice i dont regret thats it.. so whoever just added my mom into this screw you this has no anything to do with her..

i simply asked "would it make any changes if i stopped bangin her?

Look if you cant give a relevant opinion or a good advice just ignore the post.. especially people that dont even know how to speak english 👃
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It's unfortunate that you are going through this that is ethically wrong and would have a hard time to end it without hurting anyone. But otherwise, I'm glad (lol) that you find any good in it at all right now aka the affairs that keep your sexual life happy. Of course at some point you need to stop cause you'll enjoy having a relationship with someone else where you'd have no problems with moral and etichal issue. And you'll need to maintain a good relationship with her because she might tell your future partner about this it may lead to worse issues.

So I'd recommend you go with the flow but tone it down sometimes. Maybe find her a mate that could help redirect her sexual desires from you. Maybe lie that you're sick occasionally so you can escape that day's of sex that may help her ease off you. Making sure you keep a good relationship with her by not arguing about this will prevent her from blackmailing you. For now, lmao enjoy your tragic but lucky days with her.

Best of luck,
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It's unfortunate that you are going through this that is ethically wrong and would have a hard time to end it without hurting anyone. But otherwise, I'm glad (lol) that you find any good in it at all right now aka the affairs that keep your sexual life happy. Of course at some point you need to stop cause you'll enjoy having a relationship with someone else where you'd have no problems with moral and etichal issue. And you'll need to maintain a good relationship with her because she might tell your future partner about this it may lead to worse issues.

So I'd recommend you go with the flow but tone it down sometimes. Maybe find her a mate that could help redirect her sexual desires from you. Maybe lie that you're sick occasionally so you can escape that day's of sex that may help her ease off you. Making sure you keep a good relationship with her by not arguing about this will prevent her from blackmailing you. For now, lmao enjoy your tragic but lucky days with her.

Best of luck,
Ewique
thank you v much.. and yes i dont trust her not even a bit.. she once almost rat us out that we were having sex after a small fight. lol
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thank you v much.. and yes i dont trust her not even a bit.. she once almost rat us out that we were having sex after a small fight. lol
I feel sorry for your mum and her dad. Both of you are irresponsible. Your parents are oblivious to you and your sister relationship. Sorry but if you can’t accept if you’re in the wrong then you are just as guilty. You should definitely own up and accept whatever she says. Your life is basically screwed if this comes out. Might as well tell her now and get over it then continue to lie to her and then she finds out.
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I feel sorry for your mum and her dad. Both of you are irresponsible. Your parents are oblivious to you and your sister relationship. Sorry but if you can’t accept if you’re in the wrong then you are just as guilty. You should definitely own up and accept whatever she says. Your life is basically screwed if this comes out. Might as well tell her now and get over it then continue to lie to her and then she finds out.
How exactly do i do that?? likee.. "Hey mom, ive been sleeping with my step sister" i cant do that. I am guily yes! but if i dont go with her will she might end up exposing us she gat nothing to lose and honestly i dont want to fu*k her anymore. im just worried how she'll react to it i dont want any backfire
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What do you need help with? I don't see the problem here

She's not using you. You enjoy having sex with her just as much as she does. So clearly it's not a one way street. You are both getting something from this.
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How exactly do i do that?? likee.. "Hey mom, ive been sleeping with my step sister" i cant do that. I am guily yes! but if i dont go with her will she might end up exposing us she gat nothing to lose and honestly i dont want to fu*k her anymore. im just worried how she'll react to it i dont want any backfire
That’s for you to decide. Would you either want her to find out herself and you deal with lying to her as well or would you act as the better person and admit it yourself? Honestly this Situation wouldn’t have happened if you didn’t allow her to do this. You should have outright stopped her rather than let this continue. You have put yourself in this situation so it’s your choice.
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How exactly do i do that?? likee.. "Hey mom, ive been sleeping with my step sister" i cant do that. I am guily yes! but if i dont go with her will she might end up exposing us she gat nothing to lose and honestly i dont want to fu*k her anymore. im just worried how she'll react to it i dont want any backfire
I don't understand, how does she not have anything to lose? Surely she'll be just as screwed if her dad finds out?
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What do you need help with? I don't see the problem here

She's not using you. You enjoy having sex with her just as much as she does. So clearly it's not a one way street. You are both getting something from this.
Nah. i dont get what i want.. did you even read that?? I said i love the sex but sex is supposed to be a 2 side agreement. shes only interested in me when SHE wants to **** and doesnt even consider if im.in the mood or not. shes basically blackmailing me
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I don't understand, how does she not have anything to lose? Surely she'll be just as screwed if her dad finds out?
If our sex life ever goes public.. who do you think they'll belive? Me? a weed smoker or her? the best child on the eyes of a parent?
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I call troll, the OP is only saying I am not trolling to try save face
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Hey man all I could say is try and tell your parents if you tell them they may understand and help you and your step sister.If you are looking for a relationship try something like tinder.
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Hi, im 19 years old and so is my step sister.. i'll try to keep this as short as possible

to start off.. i'd like to make something clear. im not trolling and i desperately need advice. and tbh im not one of those guys that pretend they "Hate sex"cause i dont. i fu*king love it!! however when i say im being used i mean she only **** me when she wants to. Let me shed some light into it

so 2 years ago my mom got married, and both the new step dad and my step sister were nice people.. me and my step sister got along pretty well and our parents were glad we were so close. However for some reason in that "alone time" we were spending we ended up kissing each other. but eventually i moved to another city for college. the time i was away she tried to message me like a couple but i ignored her knowing very well it wont happen.. i came back this year on january and our relation was still solid and pretended like nothing happened.

This one day we were home alone and i was in my room watching netflix. she came and sat next to me in my bed asking what i was watching while touching my thighs and pretending she was very interested in the movie i was watching, and to be honest things escalated very fast after that and we ended up having sex. ngl we enjoyed it and we did it on a daily basis as long as we were home alone which most of the times we were!!

few months pasts and things started to change.. we then started having sex wheneva she wanted to it wouldnt matter where or how.. like one day i was doing the dishes and she came up to me randomly heavily kissing me and lifting her skirt up. its like she was possesed and just wanted me to **** her

on my case however.. if im horny and i want to scr*w her she sometimes rejects and gets very mad about it. and i hate that

i know what we're doing is wrong. i tried to stop myself but couldnt since after all im living in the same house with a hot girl that comes in my room late at night in a bikini.

I hate the fact that shes using me for sex, i like the whole sex thing but being used is what i mostly dont agree with.

Any advice/help please?
What in the name of pornhub is this just stop having sex simple as
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Nah. i dont get what i want.. did you even read that?? I said i love the sex but sex is supposed to be a 2 side agreement. shes only interested in me when SHE wants to **** and doesnt even consider if im.in the mood or not. shes basically blackmailing me
Just because you don’t say no when she comes to you...
It’s not her fault that she actually manages to resist your “charms”
You don’t get to demand sex nor does she owe you it.
If she doesn’t want it then it doesn’t happen.
If you don’t want it then it also shouldn’t happen-but you just don’t seem to ever say no... 🤷🏼*♀️
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