I'm 22 and no boyfriend?

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beccaroady
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ALL my friends are in relationships and I just don't seem to be meeting ANYONE.

I moved to London recently and I get male attention but just haven't met the right one.

Whenever I drink I get sad at the fact I don't have anyone and end up kissing boys lol. Plz help me think positively or give up on boys or something PLZ!
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I mean, I’m 22 and never been in a relationship but I’m not complaining. Don’t see what the desperation is :dontknow:
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I mean, I’m 22 and never been in a relationship but I’m not complaining. Don’t see what the desperation is :dontknow:
I'm lonely because my friends are in relationships and would be nice to have somewhere there and worried I'll never have it!!!
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(Original post by beccaroady)
ALL my friends are in relationships and I just don't seem to be meeting ANYONE.

I moved to London recently and I get male attention but just haven't met the right one.

Whenever I drink I get sad at the fact I don't have anyone and end up kissing boys lol. Plz help me think positively or give up on boys or something PLZ!
don't worry ma dude, I'm 22 and a male and have never been in a relationship. No stress, enjoy your life n the right person will come into your life x
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(Original post by beccaroady)
ALL my friends are in relationships and I just don't seem to be meeting ANYONE.

I moved to London recently and I get male attention but just haven't met the right one.

Whenever I drink I get sad at the fact I don't have anyone and end up kissing boys lol. Plz help me think positively or give up on boys or something PLZ!
You are overstressing. better no relationship than the wrong one. Work on your own self esteem and that will increase your confidence and make you care less, which in turn will make you more attractive. If you really need to get it sorted then dont be shy and meet more boys/men plus improve your flirting skills.
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(Original post by beccaroady)
I'm lonely because my friends are in relationships and would be nice to have somewhere there and worried I'll never have it!!!
You’re getting paranoid over nothing. It’s not the end of the world. You’re not the only one who isn’t in a relationship at 22. So what if your mates are in a relationship?
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well i'm 32 and i've never even been laid
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21, m, never even kissed a girl. I used to care about it. Now I don't. I have too much going on in my life at this point
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I'm lonely because my friends are in relationships and would be nice to have somewhere there and worried I'll never have it!!!
Did you have a boyfriend in the past?

Everyone meets someone at some point because there is always someone whether how crazy the person is that 1% will like that person for who that person is.
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well i'm 32 and i've never even been laid
I can sense that you're my future self talking...
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have u tried online dating
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To be fair, the club is one of the least likely places you'll find a long-term relationship. The vast majority of guys in the club are either looking for a one-night stand or with their squad (and have GFs back home).

If you want to meet new people and increase your chances of finding a BF, go to bars! They are much quieter so you can actually have a decent conversation without shouting 10cm away from their ear, are classier in vibe (less ****bois) and the drinks are much more exciting.
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Having a partner should enhance your happiness not be the reason for it.
Fill your life with things you enjoy. Go out with friends, join clubs etc.
Before you can have a successful relationship you need to be happy and confident with yourself.
Att 22, your friends probably won’t be in these relationships forever. Although it does happen.
Enjoy yourself first before you settle down. If you look to hard you’ll look desperate and that’s not attractive. That or you’ll end up being used.
And it sounds as if drinking makes you maudlin and do things that you regret. Never a good move. Maybe cut down and find fun in other things.
You’ll meet the right person. When you’re ready. Work on yourself first. Good luck
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You will find someone eventually, get yourself on tinder 😂 that’s how I met mines and been together for nearly 2 years
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i feel the same way, I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. Dramatic but I feel like I'm running out of time
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i feel the same way, I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. Dramatic but I feel like I'm running out of time
It will take time to find the right person!
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It will take time to find the right person!
I know but I'm so impatient
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Get yourself on tinder
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Get yourself on tinder
Tinder is not for people looking for something serious. Would be a waste of time for OP
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I found my boyfriend on there and we’ve been together for nearly 2 years, as I said you just need to find the right person.
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