female masturbation questions

anonymous for obvious reasons - if you have to de-anon then please delete.

ok so basically, i'm quite new to masturbation and i've only done it once or twice before. i'm not looking for techniques or anything like that. i just have a few questions.

i'm a straight female but last night i was masturbating and i was imagining a girl rubbing herself naked or two girls making out - is this normal? the thought of a guy doing anything to himself or with a girl just doesn't turn me on.

also, i don't feel anything that intense when i masturbate, i mean obviously it feels nice but how can i get really into it? i cant watch porn because i still live with my family and my room doesnt have a lock.

and finally, at the moment i'm quite tight (still a virgin) and i can only just get two fingers in (and even then it hurts a bit), so what will happen when it comes to having sex? :confused:

thanks for any replies/advice.

Reply 1

Anony mouse

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Anonymous

anonymous for obvious reasons - if you have to de-anon then please delete.

ok so basically, i'm quite new to masturbation and i've only done it once or twice before. i'm not looking for techniques or anything like that. i just have a few questions.

i'm a straight female but last night i was masturbating and i was imagining a girl rubbing herself naked or two girls making out - is this normal? the thought of a guy doing anything to himself or with a girl just doesn't turn me on.

Yeah, it's normal to have fantasies like that.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

and finally, at the moment i'm quite tight (still a virgin) and i can only just get two fingers in (and even then it hurts a bit)

I'm the same but can only get one finger, which is annoying. Tried too but its impossible!!!

haha. lube?

One word: clitoris!

You ain't gonna get nowhere putting fingers up yourself at the moment.

Don't worry, we all like female porn more than male porn 'cos let's face it, women are better :wink:

Reply 5

atoms4peace

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Anonymous

also, i don't feel anything that intense when i masturbate, i mean obviously it feels nice but how can i get really into it? i cant watch porn because i still live with my family and my room doesnt have a lock.

am i the only one who isnt turned on by porn? Its amusing, actually some is laughable but sexy? not at all. My imagination is more of a turn on tbh

Reply 6

The Shiz

Anonymous

and finally, at the moment i'm quite tight (still a virgin) and i can only just get two fingers in (and even then it hurts a bit), so what will happen when it comes to having sex? :confused:

erm, 2 fingers is more than enough, how many more do you want in there? :s-smilie:

Reply 7

atoms4peace

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The Shiz

erm, 2 fingers is more than enough, how many more do you want in there? :s-smilie:

i think the point shes getting at is that if she can only just fit two fingers in how is she going to fit a penis in

Reply 8

Anonymous #3

Anonymous

i'm a straight female but last night i was masturbating and i was imagining a girl rubbing herself naked or two girls making out - is this normal? the thought of a guy doing anything to himself or with a girl just doesn't turn me on.

Yes, that's quite normal. Doesn't mean your sexual orientation has changed or anything. I get turned on by thinking of two men together. And I'm female.

Anonymous

also, i don't feel anything that intense when i masturbate, i mean obviously it feels nice but how can i get really into it? i cant watch porn because i still live with my family and my room doesnt have a lock.

Have you tried reading stories? Search for literotica on the net. Those always make my masturbation a lot more intense and I prefer it to porn.

Anonymous

and finally, at the moment i'm quite tight (still a virgin) and i can only just get two fingers in (and even then it hurts a bit), so what will happen when it comes to having sex? :confused:

Can't answer this as I'm a virgin as well, but I am the same, I can only fit 1.5 - 2 fingers in. So I'm sure our bodies are not abnormal and will expand accordingly when the time comes :P

Reply 9

~~hannah~~

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Two things:
one: aim for the clitoris.
two: if porn isnt for you, try erotic literature. (google it and you might find something you like)

and yes, it is totally normal to fantasise about women. women are different when it comes to their fantasies I think, alot of the time they as a person arent involved in the fantasy, but with men I think usually they fantasise about themselves with someone.

Reply 10

louisedotcom

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atoms4peace

am i the only one who isnt turned on by porn? Its amusing, actually some is laughable but sexy? not at all. My imagination is more of a turn on tbh

You arnt alone :smile:

I cant take it seriously atall, Ill watch for comedy value, but for anything else it doesnt sufice.

Reply 11

randdom

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I don't really think that it is appropriate to give detailed tips but what other people are saying sounds about right. Google if you want anything more graphic. If you can't watch anything then erotic literature could work for you.

Finally don't worry about the number of fingers that you can fit as when the time comes there won't be problems.

Reply 12

Psyk

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atoms4peace

am i the only one who isnt turned on by porn? Its amusing, actually some is laughable but sexy? not at all. My imagination is more of a turn on tbh

You have to have the right state of mind to get aroused by it. Basically you have to just ignore how completely ridiculous and stupid it is :biggrin:

Sometimes it's fun to sit around with mates watching porn just to have a good laugh at it.

Reply 13

Anonymous #4

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Women are, I think, much less receptive to porn. Men are visual creatures... hence why they are the ones that tend to watch porn.

Reply 14

Anonymous #5

I seem to only be able to masturbate over women too. I really want sex with a girl, been wanting it for ages but I'm worried my boyfriend will be angry, so...

Reply 15

NoQualms

Anonymous

I seem to only be able to masturbate over women too. I really want sex with a girl, been wanting it for ages but I'm worried my boyfriend will be angry, so...

Well you're obviously bisexual.

Reply 16

Anonymous #6

same here. The majority of time i masturbate i think about having sex with women or the women i've made out with. I enjoy sex with guys but its not the sort of thing i get turned on by thinking about. I'd like to try sex with a girl if such an oppertunity arose. I'm too scared to put myself out there though.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

OP

thanks for all the replies and advice everyone.
i still dont understand why i fancy guys when i'm not masturbating but i fantasise about women when i am :s-smilie:

so confusing...

Reply 18

Querimonious

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Slightly odd (or perhapd 'different' would be a better word here) fantasies are pefectly normal. Like someone said above, I find I can end up thinking about two guys together...

Doesn't make me a homosexual man.

:biggrin:

Reply 19

Psyk

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Querimonious

Slightly odd (or perhapd 'different' would be a better word here) fantasies are pefectly normal. Like someone said above, I find I can end up thinking about two guys together...

Doesn't make me a homosexual man.

:biggrin:

Well I regularly think of two women together, and I don't think that makes me a lesbian. If it does, then I think I'll stick with having a cock rather than get the surgery.

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