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I constantly think of women and sex, and its starting to affect my life.

I know its normal for guys to think about it, but my trouble is im ALWAYS thinking about it, even to the point I neglect things im supposed to do, or getting myself into debt in the hope of getting some action..

Ive never had a girlfriend, and I can't seem to get one. Not only am I ugly and fat, im shy around new people and never get time (or like) to go out.

Because it doesn't come naturally to me, I literally spend hours a day on escort sites, or adult model sites trying to talk people into 'a photoshoot' involving 'adult' work..sometimes I can be on my phone in bed for 2-3hrs before I realise the time and get up. I have tons of stuff that need doing but this past couple of weeks ive been neglecting everything to look for girls wanting to earn some spare cash meeting guys, spending hours online looking (just realised ive spent about 4hrs already tonight looking at escorts and adult models and I only got home from work 5hrs ago!)
The other trouble is, I can't afford it either really, but somehow the chance to be with a naked girl seems to win out. I have bills over the next two months totaling at least £1000 to find money for. I have £3500 on a credit card to pay off. Yet im considering booking escorts for £250 over the next couple of weeks, and trying to find someone to meet when I go to London next week.

Going to the doctors isnt really an option, and I feel I cant say anything to the few friends I have. Anyone have any ideas what I can do to get out of this rut?!
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I constantly think of women and sex, and its starting to affect my life.

I know its normal for guys to think about it, but my trouble is im ALWAYS thinking about it, even to the point I neglect things im supposed to do, or getting myself into debt in the hope of getting some action..

Ive never had a girlfriend, and I can't seem to get one. Not only am I ugly and fat, im shy around new people and never get time (or like) to go out.

Because it doesn't come naturally to me, I literally spend hours a day on escort sites, or adult model sites trying to talk people into 'a photoshoot' involving 'adult' work..sometimes I can be on my phone in bed for 2-3hrs before I realise the time and get up. I have tons of stuff that need doing but this past couple of weeks ive been neglecting everything to look for girls wanting to earn some spare cash meeting guys, spending hours online looking (just realised ive spent about 4hrs already tonight looking at escorts and adult models and I only got home from work 5hrs ago!)
The other trouble is, I can't afford it either really, but somehow the chance to be with a naked girl seems to win out. I have bills over the next two months totaling at least £1000 to find money for. I have £3500 on a credit card to pay off. Yet im considering booking escorts for £250 over the next couple of weeks, and trying to find someone to meet when I go to London next week.

Going to the doctors isnt really an option, and I feel I cant say anything to the few friends I have. Anyone have any ideas what I can do to get out of this rut?!
Actually, it looks like your only option. You've got a problem if everything you've said here is true.
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damn escorts over your bills? you've definitely got your priorities straight
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Btw its been almost a year since I last actual had sexual contact with a girl, but only because I keep getting let down a LOT by people I arrange to meet various ways.
I have also tried tinder, pof, match etc with no luck at all..
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just think about your future
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This one is pretty easy to solve. First get rid of your phone and get a dumb phone.

Then only go on the laptop if you have to go on it. Pick a public place. Stick with this for a while.

If it doesn't help, yeah, then see someone.
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(Original post by Tootles)
Actually, it looks like your only option. You've got a problem if everything you've said here is true.
My doctor isn't approachable for even simple things, let alone this. Its a woman too, so how would I say "Hey, I have a problem and cant stop thinking of sex, what can we do?"..
I do not want to take any kind of pills as would be too embarassing, and my parents would find out.
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My doctor isn't approachable for even simple things, let alone this. Its a woman too, so how would I say "Hey, I have a problem and cant stop thinking of sex, what can we do?"..
I do not want to take any kind of pills as would be too embarassing, and my parents would find out.
Ask to see a male doctor if it makes you uncomfortable.

Also you'll just have to overcome the embarrassment - though it seems more likely that you'll have to do some sort of sex addiction therapy than
take pills.
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damn escorts over your bills? you've definitely got your priorities straight
And thats one of my problems. Normally its not so bad, one a month maybe is about managable (although Ive been let down constantly all year!) but ive been offered to see a couple of girls this month, and my craving for sex can't resist it even though I know I can't afford it and know I probably wont get another chance.
My usual friend with benefits (who I still have to pay about £50 a time for) has let me down every single time this year so haven't seen her since new year, so these current prices im looking at paying are insanely high and I can only feel they are a course of desperation after going so long without!
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And thats one of my problems. Normally its not so bad, one a month maybe is about managable (although Ive been let down constantly all year!) but ive been offered to see a couple of girls this month, and my craving for sex can't resist it even though I know I can't afford it and know I probably wont get another chance.
My usual friend with benefits (who I still have to pay about £50 a time for) has let me down every single time this year so haven't seen her since new year, so these current prices im looking at paying are insanely high and I can only feel they are a course of desperation after going so long without!
lmao how do you pay your friend for sex? I dont think FWB works that way..
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lmao how do you pay your friend for sex? I dont think FWB works that way..
She needs cash, Im after sex..she's happy to 'do me' if I give her something in return. FWB was a loose term. But shes been very unreliable all year.
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Think about food
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She needs cash, Im after sex..she's happy to 'do me' if I give her something in return. FWB was a loose term. But shes been very unreliable all year.
£50 isn't much cash. I hope the reason shes being unreliable is that she learnt her worth

why dont you just enter a relationship?
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£50 isn't much cash. I hope the reason shes being unreliable is that she learnt her worth

why dont you just enter a relationship?
She has a boyfriend and wont leave him even though he sponges cash from her and doesn't have a job.
She keeps asking me if I want to meet, or if I know of any jobs going to make some cash, but when I try and meet, she cancells last min or doesn't turn up, then a couple of weeks later she asks again..
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She has a boyfriend and wont leave him even though he sponges cash from her and doesn't have a job.
She keeps asking me if I want to meet, or if I know of any jobs going to make some cash, but when I try and meet, she cancells last min or doesn't turn up, then a couple of weeks later she asks again..
why dont you get into a relationship if you're that sexually frustrated?
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why dont you get into a relationship if you're that sexually frustrated?
In his defence getting into a relationship is easier said than done. Pahaha.
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In his defence getting into a relationship is easier said than done. Pahaha.
I have anxiety so its hard for me to get into one so idk if op is the same
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I have anxiety so its hard for me to get into one so idk if op is the same
I’m 18 and I’ve never been in one. As soon as I talk to anyone I’m remotely attracted to my mind goes blank.
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I have anxiety so its hard for me to get into one so idk if op is the same
Same, so I find it extremely hard to meet new people.
And those I do know, noone wants a relationship with me.
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Same, so I find it extremely hard to meet new people.
And those I do know, noone wants a relationship with me.
Hmm - based on all you've said so far, are you sure you're not an alt of IHateAspergers? (Has he been banned?)
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