So I'm a third year living in a 4 bedroom flat. 2 of my flatmates are also third years, and are not very sociable and are quiet 99% of the time because, like me they have a lot of important work to be getting on with.
One of the rooms is a studio room so basically only the 3 of us share the communal kitchen to cook. The flatmate living in the studio room is a first year. So I understand that she wants to go out and get drunk and have an amazing time.
Now in my first 2 years of uni I've lived in halls and I've heard and experienced many annoying things like loud music and *off-putting* noises. And I've always been able to tolerate it.
However this one flatmate who lives in the studio room is...unbearable.
Once or twice a week she has friends over and they have pre-drinks in the shared kitchen. Okay, I understand that because it's a big open space and not a lot of people can fit in her studio, that it's perfect for her to just hang in there before going out. However, a few weeks ago, their music was blaring until about 1am. I went into the kitchen in the morning and I had to walk through big puddles of alcohol and juice on the floor. And what's worse is that they had used my tea-towel to mop up the juice on the table and just left it there all scrunched up. I did talk to her about the mess that day and she said that it was all her friends mess and she had passed out on her bed. But she didn't clean up, she left that all to me.
Now here's the reason why I'm so tempted to report her to the accommodation supervisors. In the space of 2 weeks I've woken up to her music blaring. My room is right next to hers. The first time I was woken up by her blasting music at 5:30am. I could hear she had company and it went on until about 6:30-7am.
This morning though it was worse, she was playing music which shook my whole room and woke me up at 2:50am. It went on until about 3:30am. The bass was so strong that my heart was beating in my chest and I nearly had a panic attack. I went to the kitchen for some water and you could hear it loud and clear in the hallway. I had a 9am lecture this morning which I missed because I was so tired from her waking me up that I overslept.
I'm just not sure if I should report her or see if it continues any longer?
I can't talk to her about it because she is out for most of the day and I hate confrontation. I'm a very anxious and socially awkward person and to think about someone knowing I have a problem with them sends my anxiety crazy.
I have a lot of important work to complete this year which means I need to get a good amount of sleep. I'm sure that my other 2 flatmates have a lot of important work too. I can't deal with this anymore.
Should I report my flatmate?
Or should I let it slide until it gets overbearing?
(please be kind and try to understand my situation as i've had people comment in the past telling me to not be so silly and were basically really rude and apathetic )