Saw a thread similar to this about a week or two ago, now having a similar issue...
I'm in year 2 of uni. Me and a few other people have boyfriends/girlfriends at uni with us by now. Our lecturer always lets us out at least 5 mins late on Mondays, so our partners usually head over and wait for us to get let out and we go off together in our couples.
There's this one girl. She's very religious, and she mentions it all the time, and I've had less than great experiences with religious people in the past due to me being a lesbian, so I've kind of avoided her and when we've had to work together I've omitted the truth about my sexuality, because I was worried about starting something.
On Monday I got out of the lecture and my girlfriend was waiting to meet me. Religious girl's boyfriend was also waiting to meet her. She goes over and kisses her bf and my girlfriend knows I'm not huge on proper kissing in public but she hugged me and kissed my neck, which I'm fine with because it's more discreet. Religious girl sees anyway and asks if we're sisters or friends and my gf, not realising she's the religious girl I'd told her about previously, says we're dating. I just see religious girl's face drop. She like mutters something and grabs her boyfriends hand and drags him away.
Yesterday, Tuesday, I had a different lecture with her and she basically turned up her nose at me, wouldn't look at me or talk to me, and the mutual friend said that when she actually asked her what was up the religious girl basically said that she couldn't be around "someone like that" aka me, a lesbian.
She's worried that I'll try and take advantage of her, which is ridiculous for several reasons. She also seems to think I'm going to hell, which is fun. And she thinks being around me is going to "taint her spirit" or something like that.
This would be fine, if it were just about any other classmate. I'm all for religious freedom, and as far as I'm concerned so long as she isn't trying to crucify or exorcise me she can get on with it.
Here's my problem:
We work together quite a bit as we have one mutual friend and as I've hid my being gay we haven't had any disagreements and it's all gone smoothly until now.
We're working on something right now. It's a group presentation worth 40% of my overall grade for this module. I know I already fumbled with the first stage of the assessment, which was an exam worth 30%, as I don't do well on exams in general. I'm working on it, but that was literally the last exam I'll ever take. The third part is an upcoming essay, which I feel pretty good about, but it's only 30%.
We're too far in to switch groups now, and the presentation is literally due on Halloween, so a week from today. We were assigned it on the 15th and on the day religious girl found out I'm gay she was appointed group leader and part of her job is assigning roles and dividing up what we're meant to say and do in the presentation, which is important as not only do we all get graded on the overall content of the presentation, but also what we do when giving it. The presentation is meant to be half an hour long. The content and the presentation are worth half marks. So if you don't do well with public speaking or you don't say a lot or you aren't there to give the presentation, the most you can get is 50%.
Today she sent out a copy of the script we wrote together, with highlights that indicate who is saying what and who is taking control of which parts of the presentation. There are 10 topics to cover and an interactive bit which requires 2 people, and there are 4 people in the group.
We wrote the whole thing together, and we each had areas we covered before compiling it all into a slideshow. I did the bulk of the research for 4 of the topics and as I finished first I was made a "floater" and went around the group helping with the other 6, so when she asked I was able to tell her that I would be happy to present any of them, but would prefer to not do interactive as that's the part I was least confident on.
The way we planned it Monday was that 2 of us would cover 3 discussion points each and the other 2 would cover 2 discussion points and split the interactive part between them.
The script she sent out has me covering 1 discussion point (not even a particularly large one) and nothing else.
I sent it to our mutual friend who said "yeah, your part is pretty small" and between us we basically begged her to give me more to do and she said I could help with the interactive part, which already has 2 people doing it.
She seems to have taken the parts I thought I was doing and split them between herself and the rest of the group, leaving me with a few minutes of talking at most. So I am currently doing about 10% of the presentation when everyone is meant to be doing 25%.
I can prove with my notes and emails and browsing history that I did my part in researching and creating the presentation, but even if I could prove that I singlehandedly created the best presentation of all time, it's still only worth half the overall marks.
I don't want to like grass her up to the lecturer or whatever, but I don't want my grade to suffer because she doesn't like my relationship.
Any ideas?