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Sex buddy

Carlo08

Is it natural/healthy to have one/ a few of these? like some1 for casual sex

Whats it like for casual sex at uni?

Reply 1

NickkO

Carlo08

Is it natural/healthy to have one/ a few of these? like some1 for casual sex

Whats it like for casual sex at uni?

If you don't feel utterly repulsive (morally) for having multiple sex buddies (prostitutes you don't have to pay), then I suppose there's nothing wrong or unhealthy about it.

Reply 2

randomgirl

14

Well it's up to you. Some people at uni will be up for it, others won't. Going to uni doesn't mean you will automatically be getting laid every week though. If you do sleep with people make sure you use condoms and stay safe.

Reply 3

rach [shikari]

11

I dont think theres anything wrong with it really. Never done it myself though

Reply 4

Arielle

1

I think it's quite a good idea as long as it's with just one person who feels the same way. Don't use the girl/boy though, make sure you're on the same wavelength in what you want before you do anything.

Reply 5

~Ally~

14

to each their own, as long as the emotional issues are strictly dealt with. I can imagine maaany a headache coming from such a situation.

Reply 6

CHAMON

11

Nowt wrong with it. But to me, unless you're in a realtionship, what's the point in having sex with the same person over and over? Best to get somebody new each time. :hubba:

Reply 7

fungirl1234

13

i have one and as long as there is no false impressions as to what your relastionship is then there is no problem. However i dont think its a long term thing

Reply 8

Mrgd291190

16

People who have regular casual sex = Lucky Bastards.

Honest :sadnod:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

I used to have sex buddies before I met my bf. It is a good idea if you can separate sex with love, which means that you have to think like a guy and don't expect anything in return (e.g. presents)
After a while you will be tired of it and long to have a stable relationship. After all, sex is the best if you do it with somebody you love. Now my sex life is brilliant with my bf. Under my influence he becomes very open-minded and up for adventures like swinging.

Reply 10

Not Invented Yet

12

I think it's fine if you can manage it without one of you wanting to get more deeply involved... but I've never seen that successfully happen. Personally I could never do that because I'd have to push all my self-respect aside.

Reply 11

username47781

20

Nothing wrong with it, some people love it, some prefer relationships. Guess they can be fun for a while but they can get messy with someone developing feelings.

Reply 12

lazza

15

there's really not anything wrong with it if you use protection and don't get yourself attached

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

I had one last summer, I fell for him and he didn't want a relationship. I couldn't blame him cause he made that clear from the start and I thought that sex was all I wanted too, until I realised I had feelings for him. I came to uni messed up because of it all.

I reckon the sex buddy thing can work in some situations but can't in others I guess. Just be careful not to get hurt.

Reply 14

Anonymous #3

if you can separate sex with love,

ive never been in love so thats perfectly simple, ive kinda got one at the mo, hes my exes mate, and i know its bad but we are both single and why should i be wary of my ex and if he finds out im guessinf he wil not be pleased, but then i dunt care as he is my ex, i was sleeping with him for ages after we broke up as well,

keep a distance, dunt get attatched,no strings is the best just means u can walk away after lol

Reply 15

Helenia

20

I wouldn't necessarily say it's natural or healthy, but some people like it. Be careful though - too often these things end up badly. Even at uni you need to pick your person carefully.

Reply 16

wolveswitch

i've had one but even though i thought i could seperate sex from love i clearly couldn't as i started falling for him and became upset if i saw him leaving a club with another girl oh well i have a bf now and the sex is better with him purely for the fact that he loves me for who i am and doesn't just come back to me for what i can do in the sack (or when he's pissed)

each to their own tho i thought i could but clearly not but i do have friends that this has worked successfully for

but it has already been said just because of uni it doesn't mean that you will either be in lectures or having sex ppl have sex buddies at different times in their lives mine was just when i was lonely and undersexed he he

Reply 17

Bateman

17

Arielle

I think it's quite a good idea as long as it's with just one person who feels the same way. Don't use the girl/boy though, make sure you're on the same wavelength in what you want before you do anything.