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y'know when you get sexy pics what are you supposed to do with them
do you respond by complimenting the other or are you meant to send nudes back?
how does this work exactly??
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y'know when you get sexy pics what are you supposed to do with them
do you respond by complimenting the other or are you meant to send nudes back?
how does this work exactly??
You are under no obligation to do anything, and you should not send nudes back if you are not entirely comfortable with it.

If presume the person who sent them is 18 or over?
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**** of to it if it's a bird
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(Original post by Anonymous)
y'know when you get sexy pics what are you supposed to do with them
do you respond by complimenting the other or are you meant to send nudes back?
how does this work exactly??
I would like to know the answer too, what do you do so you don’t make the situation awkward
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(Original post by Smack)
You are under no obligation to do anything, and you should not send nudes back if you are not entirely comfortable with it.

If presume the person who sent them is 18 or over?
im not sending nudes just curious as to what people do with them.

between adults i mean. do people send nudes because they want the other people to make comments on their body? is that what people are traditionally expected to do?
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if they ask or hint they want something back then do send something back (if you want to) but if not, just complimenting and making them feel sexy is always a good way to go
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im not sending nudes just curious as to what people do with them.

between adults i mean. do people send nudes because they want the other people to make comments on their body? is that what people are traditionally expected to do?
People typically send them to turn on the recipient.
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if they ask or hint they want something back then do send something back (if you want to) but if not, just complimenting and making them feel sexy is always a good way to go
Compliments, sure, but don't send anything revealing back to them. You don't know who the pictures you send will be shared with or where they'll end up. This could be a fast-track to public ridicule and ostracism.

Sending nudes is, in general, a really bad idea.
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(Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
Compliments, sure, but don't send anything revealing back to them. You don't know who the pictures you send will be shared with or where they'll end up. This could be a fast-track to public ridicule and ostracism.

Sending nudes is, in general, a really bad idea.
Scaremongering...there is no statistical, scientific nor societal evidence that exchanging explicit images with someone is negatively correlated to blackmailing or anything like this..as long as both sides are happy and legal age

Your idea is only born of fear
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People typically send them to turn on the recipient.
ah so "looking fine 😘" is the typical response?

what happens if you don't find it sexually arousing do you tell them the truth?
(Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
Compliments, sure, but don't send anything revealing back to them. You don't know who the pictures you send will be shared with or where they'll end up. This could be a fast-track to public ridicule and ostracism.

Sending nudes is, in general, a really bad idea.
very true....
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(Original post by sinfonietta)
People typically send them to turn on the recipient.
Basically this ^
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Scaremongering...there is no statistical, scientific nor societal evidence that exchanging explicit images with someone is negatively correlated to blackmailing or anything like this..as long as both sides are happy and legal age

Your idea is only born of fear
I can't give you statistical evidence, but I've seen plenty of anecdotes. Just today I responded to a thread where the OP's social life was ruined because of a bad nude-sending interaction with someone who turned out to be untrustworthy. It wasn't the first such thread I've seen on here, either.
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(Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
I can't give you statistical evidence, but I've seen plenty of anecdotes. Just today I responded to a thread where the OP's social life was ruined because of a bad nude-sending interaction with someone who turned out to be untrustworthy. It wasn't the first such thread I've seen on here, either.
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My time is too expensive for you
who are you?

...you fascinate me with your narcissitic persona...

it's very unique
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Unsolicited nudes instantly give me the impression the guy is a creep and the sort of loser I have not got time for.

So a quick response of "bit small, isn't it?" before blocking them is the best approach.



However solicited nudes are much appreciated.
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You masturbate and ejaculate over them, that’s what.
I hope you wipe down your phone afterwards.
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(Original post by Violet Femme)
Unsolicited nudes instantly give me the impression the guy is a creep and the sort of loser I have not got time for.

So a quick response of "bit small, isn't it?" before blocking them is the best approach.



However solicited nudes are much appreciated.
Harsh AF :rofl: I've never got why guys do it, though - I've heard some lads like "yeah bruv, send a d*** pic, gets em wet innit!" and I'm like "....does it though? Pretty sure some girls don't want to see it...". Seems like some guys genuinely just like doing it, I personally don't see the appeal and I've only ever done it when requested and when I'm getting one in return.
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People typically send them to turn on the recipient.
I would say men send them because of their ego.
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y'know when you get sexy pics what are you supposed to do with them
do you respond by complimenting the other or are you meant to send nudes back?
how does this work exactly??
I just hit 'BLOCK'
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You scent your potential mate by spraying him with mustard and ketchup, then grill for 3 minutes until tender and serve with a brioche bun, delicious!
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