please dont deanon in case any of these people come here
Ok theres this girl......I never ever spoke to her..shes at college inyear below..started in september.......
All the guys go crazy chasing her and stuff.....and I really am not one of em..and seein as she doesnt do my subjects or I dont have any reason to..I dont really speak to her... she comes off as a bit upherself....... Ive always seen her give me the odd glance but nothing major and Ive never ever spoken to her..or even said hi..even though she speaks to my friends...
A few weeks ago she added me on facebook..which was weird seeing as Ive never ever spoken to her.....
Over the past month a very good mate has got close to her and her best friend....as friends only that is..my mate has a girlfriend of 3 years....but hes always with em.....he calls to catch up now and then... but every time hes with her he rings me...which I find weird cos i dont ring other mates when im with people just for a catchup... He was in pizza hut the other day with her and just rang me to say hi!...
Then a few days ago....my friend n his girlfriend were round this girls house...and him and his girlfriend popped off to tescos...he left his phone at her house though as he was coming back...and she withheld the number and rang me.....she said hi its Sarah and just asked how I was and stuff!!.... her names not even sarah!...I then heard my mate in the back and he took the phone and had a catch up with me
My friend said that him and his girlfriend went to tescos but they came back and she was on the phone to me......so he just thought hed say hi...
she said hello to me as I was going to football practice at lunch today...
Sorry it looks like im trolling/reading in too deep but whats the deal here..im confused...
basically I thought the same but I dont wanna assume things... Yeh I thought it was really weird her ringing me like that!...
I was just like who are u??..I dont know any sarahs..and then she asked me what i was doing for the rest of the day and stuff
I told a few friends and they think its really weird/immature... I do think one of the reasons that she likes me .....(hope she likes me!!)..is the fact that i havent paid her any attention.........hard to get works with girls..dont know what ill do from here........lol
bless her heart, she is clearly interested if you ask me.. you should/HAVE TO talk to her!
don't let her be "the one that got away", i've let some pretty awesome girls slip through my fingers plenty of times through lack of communication...trust me you WILL regret it if you don't do anything. if she isn't interested, BAH, she's in the year below you..you haven't found it hard to avoid her in the past so it would be quite easy to move on.
yeaa she really seems like she wants to get to know you and that even perhaps she's asking your friend to ring you together because she was too nervous to talk out the blue to you encase you found that weird
basically I thought the same but I dont wanna assume things... Yeh I thought it was really weird her ringing me like that!...
I was just like who are u??..I dont know any sarahs..and then she asked me what i was doing for the rest of the day and stuff
I told a few friends and they think its really weird/immature... I do think one of the reasons that she likes me .....(hope she likes me!!)..is the fact that i havent paid her any attention.........hard to get works with girls..dont know what ill do from here........lol
I did....but over the past few weeks or so...I admit ive been wrong Shes not upherself..just shy and reserved...with people who dont speak to her..... I wouldnt say im out and out interested////but im posting on here and its not cos I havent got anything else to do so you can make your own judgements
I cant believe everyone just thinks that she is definitely interested...I never really thought of it this way
Its just that she smiled yesterday and I ignored her and then said hi again today...and I started thinking more along those lines.....
its just cos the glances she gave werent out and out I want you type of looks I thought maybe the add on facebook...albeit incredibly random...was just another add cos she knew who I was
And I thought maybe the phone call was just a prank...or I dunno..something she did for a laugh...even though it was weird and why me of all people...as I barely know her..
I really dont know what to do...I dont really approach girls..the only girls ive been with were ones that openly came over and toldme they thought I was hot....I dont even know what to talk about with her and im a little tense about rejection cos if I do..and people find out......thats gonna look baaad!..
Im clueless!...
thanks people
(and btw..for the person who called me a kid..im 18 and shes 17)