How to get over a guy without completely cutting him out of your life...

(Anon coz some of my friends use this!)

Ok, so I really really need to get over this guy. It's getting silly now! Problem is, he's in my close group of friends at uni. I see him every day and he lives on the same corridor as me. Basically we admitted to each other last term that we liked each other but he just wanted to stay friends because he didn't want to ruin what we already had. I was a bit upset to begin with but I'm ok with it now. However I still like him and don't know how to stop liking him! And I don't want him to know I still like him!! Arg! How to get over him?!?

xxxxx

Reply 1

*pink_sapphires*

I know how you feel hun! This is such a horrible scenario to be in. I have a friend who I really like, he likes me too, but he doesn't want a relationship. It really hurts as I like him. I don't really have any advice because the best thing to do is cut him out of your life completely but that hurts soooooooooo much at first (it gets better in the end) but that's not going to work here as you're close friends and at uni together etc etc.

Sorry I can't be of much help. Just wanted you to know you're not alone! :hugs:

Reply 2

tom_tom_tom

MM maybe some space, that could be helpfully, its not that you are goin to cut him out of your life completely just a short period where you can get your head together, if you explain the problem you have to him im sure he will be more then understanding. I know its hard and it will be, life has a funny way of making us cope with difficult situations but in the end this will make you stronger, you jusy have to be strong and together
:hugs:

hope it works out for you

Reply 3

neon

give him some cheese

Reply 4

d0mz

'Move on'.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

d0mz

'Move on'.

Sorry, but if you're not going to post something helpful then please don't bother at all. I know I have to move on. Way easier said than done.

As for the other replies, thanks guys for being understanding :smile: