LADIES: how was it like showing your partner your naked body for the first time? Watch

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please only answer if you're a woman.

I'm about to marry sometime in the next year or so and as I'm a virgin, I dint know what to expect.
I'm gonna go gym to become more body confident but i'm sure my partner will love my body regardless. do you have any advice?
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I was a little nervous but my nerves went away so quickly because I could see he loved my body and everything about it, so I felt happy.

Don't feel like you have to change yourself to impress them. If you don't want to have sex before marriage, then I suggest talking about it at least to try and see what views your partner has about bodies and if there's any big red flags that come up.
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Are you the same person that nade the thread about how couples can be normal with each other and go about their day to day lives after having seen each others naked bodies?

If so, now it makes sense why you asked.
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(Original post by SoulfulTwist)
Are you the same person that nade the thread about how couples can be normal with each other and go about their day to day lives after having seen each others naked bodies?

If so, now it makes sense why you asked.
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Guys can be body shy and self conscious as well, OP.
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yeah
Ok, I'd rather not write this publically. Pm if you want and if you don't this is just a bump for other replies.
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(Original post by SoulfulTwist)
Ok, I'd rather not write this publically. Pm if you want and if you don't this is just a bump for other replies.
wish you gave general tips but ok no worries, i'll bump
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I'm really self-conscious so it was difficult for me, but it soon became clear that my partner liked what he saw, ha ha. Gradually it gets easier, and now we both walk round the house naked without concern (not like all the time, but if we need something after getting out of the shower or while getting dressed or something).
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wish you gave general tips but ok no worries, i'll bump
Well, it's different for every individual and every couple. It is normal to feel a bit nervous/anxious about your partner seeing you naked etc. You just take things as they go and do what feels comfortable for both of you. So you could take it bit by bit if that's for you, you know in showing and seeing skin, or maybe you may feel confident enough or courageous enough to not take it slow like that. Whatever works. It might feel awkward and that's normal, nerves and that are human feelings. It might not be awkward and that too is normal, desires and that is also human.

You just concentrate on becoming more body confident, the last thing you should do is point out your flaws, your partner isn't going to be focusing on that, no need to draw his attention to them and put such thoughts in his mind.

Also, drop any expectations. You cannot know what to expect, so just enjoy it as it goes/happens. That's the best way IMO.
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