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Why do I not get ‘feelings’?

I’m a 17 year old female and really attracted to this boy I work with who’s the same age. I’m really attracted however I don’t get the urge to kiss him etc? I’ve never had a relationship before and only kissed boys whilst drunk so is this why? Will I get more feelings after I do these sorts of things when I’ve not had alcohol?

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Anonymous #1

Well when I’m not with him I have the urge to but when I’m i am with him I don’t?

Bump

Maybe he is not the right guy for you. Its not a bad thing cause you will have it in the future with a guy you might actually like.
This is a completely normal thing, some people has never even had a bf (like me).
If you do like or attracted to him try giving him a chance.