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Haven't got on anyone in university?

I know the title sounds pathetic, but I don't even mean just having sex. I don't get attention from guys AT ALL in university, even though I like to go out a lot and I am usually quite loud and sociable.
I think it may be down to despite me being outgoing, when it comes to attractive boys, I can get quite awkward and shy (although I try my best to cover this up) and sort of look away or play it too cool. Also, I am good at reading people so when I know a boy is a bit of a d**k and has bad intentions, I steer clear. However, my friends, at home and in university, just always seem to have that one guy who they have a 'thing' with and who they like and gives them attention.
It just makes me jealous, I have only had one boyfriend who I broke up with two years ago and that is the only serious interaction I have ever had with a boy. I just don't understand why. As vain as it sounds (we love self love), I am an attractive girl, obviously I am no Kate Moss but I do get told that I am very pretty. I'm smart, kind, funny etc. This makes me sound vain but honestly I am humble, and I never brag about myself, I just know deep down I'm a good person. I just don't understand the problem with me, especially in uni where everyone seems to be on eachother? Can someone shed some light on this or give me some tips?

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