I asked my boyfriend a question.... please helpWatch
Anyways, I asked him this.
"What are the two biggest lessons you've learned from previous relationships?"
He responded like this;
First is to not talk 24/7. And second is to not be so involved in each others life and know everything that is going on.
I feel like he was indirectly talking about me because I love talking to him and being caught up on his day and stuff. I didn't know it was so much to ask for. Also if I try to give him space he gets all "what's wrong" and then when I tell him he gets either mad or frustrated, and then I am the one who has to cheer him up. I feel like I always have to act a certain way so everything feels okay. But I really do love him so much.
I guess my question is, What should I do?
Act distant? Ignore him? Give him the space he indirectly says he wants? Make him miss me?
Here's a protip, if you're going to ask a question pertaining to relationships, try not to get offended or sensitive when you hear something you didn't expect to hear. You asked, he answered. It sounds like you wanted him to say something specific to make you happy. Got a problem? Talk to him about it.