As a man, you should be doing around 20-30% of the chasing at the START.
As the courtship continues, she’ll get more comfortable and safe with you and will initiate more.
All you need to do, when she does reach out, is make a date.
Save texts/emails/Messenger for dates ONLY.
Looking back on my previous (failed) relationships, I would text my GF far too often - I was a chasing her.
Now, in my current relationship, my Gf initiates most, if not all contact. When she texts me, I set up a date, we have fun, and we hook up.
It’s so much better this way, just to get a text from her every couple of days asking me how I am...
I’m not attached to her, she’s complimenting my life, and I’m very happy.
You guys should at least try this.