So ive been dating this guy for 3 months. casual, and haven't seen each other much as we've been away and he's just so busy! he runs his own business 6 days a week.
Ive also got a busy career.
Things were great initially, effort made to text and make plans ( at some point).
He asked if I had gone on other dates.. I jokingly said yes one or two but didnt like them. he said he's not dating anyone else.
Lately, things have gotten distant, I think he thinks ill just be there and maybe taking me for granted, knowing ill see him eventually.
He takes days to text me back sometimes, and I do get that his phone is always blowing up with business.
I decided to try and make more effort because if one of us doesn't, this isn't going to work... but should I do this?
I just dont click with anyone else ive been on dates with, he's the first guy I actually want to spend time with for a very long time... but I feel like im not being a priority ( I dont need to be first - but somewhere in the middle or up there! )
after I brought up how we hardly speak in between dates, he said he will understand if I want to date other people, and he will take a hit, but said he thought I was cool about it as im also equally as busy. but that he likes me and would only rearrange plans for me.
And then, the next day after this conversation, I see he's changed up his online dating profile.
I just dont understand him ... I just dont know if I should carry on being so understanding ... or let him know that I do actually like him enough to make it work ( I feel like he might not know how I feel )
Thanks for any advice ..