Hi!
I’m in year 11 and I think my teacher may like me. I’m pretty sure although not totally sure.
It started months ago. I had a crush on him. I know this wasn’t really good so I tried waited for it to go away. I was also really afraid that he would find out so I tried really hard for him not to notice but it only got worse and he found out! At first, he seemed annoyed. But now he seems to like me.
I won’t go into details on why I think he does. Let’s just assume that he likes me. I have also found out that he has a girlfriend who just gave birth to their baby. I don’t think it’s planned.
My points are:
-Why would he cheat on his girlfriend, who just gave birth to a baby?
-Does he think his baby is going to have a good life if he cheats?
-If he really wants to cheat, why wouldn’t he cheat with someone who is 18 or older and not his student?
-Does he think I’m easy or something so that he thinks I will go along even if he already has a girlfriend? I mean, I think I do pretty well at school and I think I’m above average looking(not sure but think so haha!). Does he think I’m easy?
-Basically, what is he thinking? He can be fired and get into legal troubles, and in worst case may not be able to work as a teacher again. Also, what’s about the future? Does he think that a relationship between two people with a wide age gap who were once student and teacher gonna go well? What would other teachers think of him? Does he also think that I will want this kind of relationship?
Additional point(may be useful): I go to an independent school, which means they are stricter in term of students’ well-being. Also, I think students here are a bit richer than teachers haha.