Girlfriend wants kids but I don't?Watch
I absolutely despise children and don't expect I'll ever change. I don't want to waste all my energy and time and money on a being that won't ever be worth the trouble when I can do what I want. My girlfriend has said she isn't certain as she is scared of giving birth but probably wants to have kids to show that she can be a good mother unlike hers. She has said it's not a deal breaker if we don't have them but she is a bit disappointed about it.
People change their minds. If she changes hers, then its likely to become a deal breaker issue and as we already know your choice, then she will realise that and act accordingly.
Both opinions might change later on in life
A lot of people will consider that difference in life direction to be a deal breaker though.
If my bf didn’t want kids, I’d be really sad and would forever hope I could change his mind.
But saying that, it would probably be a dealbreaker for me actually. I’m always talking about how I want kids and what I want my life to be like as a wife and mother. This is something very important to me.
However, you said your gf isn’t sure so I would say just see how things go. Either of you could change your minds and if you’re both young then you should both keep an open mind to both ideas if you’re really unsure.