Im 15 and I have a mole on my lower thigh and it’s kinda big it’s about the size of a big pinky nail haha, it makes me really self conscious and I’m worried when I’m older and I’m doing stuff with guys they’ll notice it and ahh
Last edited by katieisthebest03; 3 weeks ago
They won't care and neither should you.
That said, keep an eye on moles.If it changes or gets bigger, go get it looked at. I know first hand how risky ignoring a mole can be!
If he cares about it, he's not worth it. Find a guy that loves you for who you are, not what you are.
Why is this a thing? You can get it removed very very easily and quickly.
I removed several moles on my body using a kitchen knife. That's actually very unsafe. But the point is they're removable lmao. Why would you not just get it taken off when it's so quick, painless, and simple?
When I was younger, I used to be really self cautious but all I needed to know was that people never really care like we think they do. They might notice it once and after that they immediately get used to it. Don't overthink stuff, live your life free of worries and problems, you only live once and its not worth waking up everyday and standing in front of the mirror and thinking bad of yourself or your looks
Trust me, I did that for a while in my younger age and I regret all of it! If people care about that stuff they are not even worthy of your friendship, relationship or love!
Last edited by Drostina; 2 weeks ago
I have a mole on my back that’s quite large that I’m insecure about. But I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and he’s never mentioned it. It’s about finding someone that loves you for you, moles and all. 😂 So don’t worry, you’re far too young to be caring about what people will think of you in the future.