However free will is a different concept, because we are all born as we are, every interaction with others is determined by 4 factors:-
1) the person they were born as, short / tall, calm/ feisty, kind/cruel.
2) the person you were born as,(same criteria as above (1))
3) thier history (influenced by the same four factors each interaction).
4) your history ( same criteria as above (3)).
By this criteria we are always going to act in the way we do the choice has already been made before we get to the point of choosing because we are who we are, ( very oracle from the matrix.)
Even when we do what might be thought of as unexpected we are still doing what we would always do it’s just the odd time we react differently from the norm because of external factors which again fall under the same criteria as above.