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How to make me accept ot

I used to be a stripper and I told my current boyfriend on our second date. We fell inlove the first day we set eyes on each other. I am madly inlove with him. But he says he can’t have a future with me coz I used to be a stripper. I really need advice on how to convince him that it was my past and I didn’t do anything other than dancing. I love this guy so much and my world has never had any meaning until I met him. I don’t want to lose him over being an ex stripper, I don’t want to lose him at all. Pls I reallly need advice.

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It’s good you’ve been honest with him but all you can do is tell him the truth
If he can’t accept it then there’s nothing you can do
He obviously did not fall in love if he is rejecting you over such a petty thing.
I wouldn't want to be with an ex-stripper either he has good morality. He doesn't want you, if he was in love he would have a 100% accepeted you for you especially since you would still he considered to be in the honeymoon phase.
He is probably worried about how his family would feel about him dating a stripper.
Reply 4
Stripper schmipper....that's no reason to leave someone more a reason to stay with them surely! :wink:

Guy's a ****.
Reply 5
I was a stripper, quit 2yrs ago and we have been together for 6 months, if he wanted to leave, why didn’t he leave in the beginning. Even after I accepted him leaving he came back to me. Making me only love him more, we even live together. So I am a little confused as to what he really wants from me. His whole family knows about it except maybe his mom and dad.
(edited 5 years ago)
Reply 6
His mom? What? Except?
reminds me of deadpool and that girl. they were cute.

OP thing is he doesn't want you. sucks. find someone who loves you for who you are.
i read your recent post and he may love you but morally he thinks it's wrong. just wait and carry no as normal. if he dumps you then find someone better.
Reply 9
Would it have been more acceptable to him if you were a cam girl? Less acceptable if you were an escort? Where's the line? Did you cross it? :wink:
If he cannot see past it, it'll always be in the way.
Reply 11
Original post by listentowhatisay
i read your recent post and he may love you but morally he thinks it's wrong. just wait and carry no as normal. if he dumps you then find someone better.

I love this guy to the point that I have no desire to love anyone that isn’t him. He made my world feel real and worth living in
Original post by Cassie001
I love this guy to the point that I have no desire to love anyone that isn’t him. He made my world feel real and worth living in


thought you were talking about me in 3rd person (weird flex)

i fell in love with some online girl i didn't even have any pics of her but half a selfie with a filter. love is dangerous. be careful and find someone who does care about you. <- cliche ik but try dating apps or college/uni/work.

and if you get into another relationship inform them straight away; you don't want any loop holes in your relationship.
Reply 13
Original post by listentowhatisay
thought you were talking about me in 3rd person (weird flex)

i fell in love with some online girl i didn't even have any pics of her but half a selfie with a filter. love is dangerous. be careful and find someone who does care about you. <- cliche ik but try dating apps or college/uni/work.

and if you get into another relationship inform them straight away; you don't want any loop holes in your relationship.

Avoiding loop hole is what cost me a future with him. We live together. One minute he wants to spend his life with me and the next my past becomes an issue.
Original post by Cassie001
Avoiding loop hole is what cost me a future with him. We live together. One minute he wants to spend his life with me and the next my past becomes an issue.


you in some deep shvt. how you living together in only 6 mnths. people live together with the intent to get married and have kids;cherish together until death.

his fault mainly; if he can't make his fu***** mind up then he's not fit for you. seriously have a chat with him.

i can't give any advice; i'm some 16yo with too much time on his hands :lol:

try @DrawTheLine
Original post by Andrew97
This didn’t happen.


be optimistic!
Girl if they cant accept you for you. Then tell them to F off they are not worth your time lol. You will fall madly in love with someone better who WILL accept your past. Tell them lol soz bye you not worth my time xox
Reply 18
Original post by Linalolo
Girl if they cant accept you for you. Then tell them to F off they are not worth your time lol. You will fall madly in love with someone better who WILL accept your past. Tell them lol soz bye you not worth my time xox

I really wish it was that easy to say that to him. I have tried but he comes back all the time
Original post by Cassie001
I really wish it was that easy to say that to him. I have tried but he comes back all the time

comes back how? It means he likes you? Tell him I am not gonna be in a relationship with someone who doesnt see a future with me its unnecessary heartbreak. I am not your toy girl. You either take it, take all of me, or leave! Talk to him again about it, if he still doesnt accept it then block him and say sorry bye

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